SCARS™ Subject Focus: The Psychology Of Romance Scams

SCARS™ Subject Focus: The Psychology Of Romance Scams

Romance Scams Are Infinitely Complex And Leave Victims With Significant Trauma

Attention is like a spotlight, which means when it’s pointing in one direction it pretty much ignores everything else. This is how a Romance Scam starts!

Except people don’t realize how little information coming in from the outside world we actually process. Naturally, you don’t notice what you don’t notice, plus the mind is designed to fill in the gaps for us. But fraudsters do know and almost every con uses some kind of distraction – a kind of social engineering to get you to do what the scammer wants you to do.

Scammers know all about social compliance and happily exploit our automatic deference to authority figures such as soldiers. People will hand over credit cards to people they think are waiters, car keys to people they think are car park attendants and give access to their house to people they think are from the water board. The best known online example is a ‘phishing attack’ where people give fraudsters their bank details in response to an email that purports to be from their bank.

These are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to social engineering scams. To truly learn how victims are manipulated and all of the mechanisms involved, we invite you to read our SCARS Library (below) on the subject of the Psychology of Romance Scams!

SCARS the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Incorporated

 
SCARS™ Team

A SCARS Division
Miami Florida U.S.A.

Reported Scammer Email Addresses – 2016 Part 3

Reported Scammer Email Addresses - 2016 Part 3 Email Addresses That Have Been Reported To Be Used By Scammers The following email addresses have been reported by scam victims as being used by scammers through the SCARS|CDN™ Cybercrime Data Network. This information was submitted to SCARS for the specific [...]

Sharon Armstrong A Victim’s Story

Sharon Armstrong Was A Victim Of A Romance Scam Sharon Armstrong spent two years in an Argentinian jail after being caught in an online dating scam! Sharon Armstrong, 59, from New Zealand, is one of those people. Five years ago, a lover she met online asked her [...]

Scammers & Slavery

THE WAR AGAINST SCAMMERS & TERRORISTS - SLAVERY We in the Western Countries sit back fat and happy while horrific things are being done around the world. Did you know that 45 million people live as slaves today, right now? This is what the Islamic scammer world believes in. This [...]

SCARS™ Scammer Gallery: Fake Female Scammers #9478

SCARS™ Scammer Gallery: Fake Female Scammers #9478 We Present A Selection Of Scammers From Popular Dating Websites Remember these photos were stolen from real people! Do You Know Any Of These Scammer Girls? Tell us about your experiences with Romance Scammers in our Scams Discussion Forum on Facebook » [...]

Death Scams

The Dying Widow ScamOne Of The Popular Variations On The Email Scam Is The Dying Widow ScamThe basic idea is that a Widow (or Widower) is Dying And Needs Your Help!This is a variation of the typical "419" Advance Fee Fraud Scam, where the scammer claims to be a childless [...]

Do You Want To Help Stop This?

Add Your Voice Online Fraud is destroying millions of people every year! It attacks the elderly. It attacks families. It transfers Billions of Dollars a year into the hands of ISIS and other terrorist organizations worldwide. Today, each individual country is responsible for the crime inside their borders. African countries [...]

Kidnapping Scams

Another Evolution In Scamming Are Kidnapping ScamsScammers Connect Via A Fake Profile That Then Says They Have Been KidnappedIt sounds like something out of Hollywood, but it’s hitting homes across the country: “virtual kidnapping,” where fraudsters try to extort money by claiming that a family member has been taken hostage.This [...]

Tinder – The Next Nightmare

Why Is Tinder A Nightmare?Tinder extends your Facebook profile into a who new ocean.Only problem, there are sharks in the Tinder Sea!How does this work?On Tinder, you connect your Facebook account to the Tinder app on your Apple or Android device. Once you have your account connected, you can use [...]

Romance Scams Now 25 Years Online

Thank You! 2016 is our 25th year online! We would like to sincerely thank all of our followers! Without you we would not be here! More than 5,000 people a day visit our website for education about romance scams, and almost 15,000 people are engaged with our Facebook pages. We [...]

SCARS™ Scammer Gallery: More Fake Women Named “Rose” #7763

SCARS™ Scammer Gallery: More Fake Women Named "Rose" #7763 Scammers Love The Name "Rose" We present a selection of Dating Scammers named: Rose, Rosa, & Roselyn A Rose by any other name would still be a Scammer! Remember these photos were stolen from real people! Do you know any of these [...]

OFFICIAL FBI PODCAST – Sextortion Case

Man Sentenced in International Sextortion Scheme Official FBI Podcast: A Florida man is serving 105 years in federal prison for one of the largest sextortion cases in the United States. Periodically, as provided by the FBI, we will present a podcast interview with the FBI relating to scams and scammers, [...]

OFFICIAL FBI PODCAST – May 2016

New Crime Fighting Unit Official FBI Podcast: May 2016: FBI Creates the International Cyber Crime Coordination Cell Periodically, as provided by the FBI, we will present a podcast interview with the FBI relating to scams and scammers, February 10, 2016 Allow a few minutes to download before it [...]

Top 10 Most Stolen Photos

Top 10 Most Stolen Photos WorldwideHere are the top ten favorite personalities that scammers steal photos from!These are worldwide favorites of scammers to use for fake profiles in social media and online dating websites.This is based up data compiled from the dating industry. 

Refugee Scams

A New Trend In Scamming Is Middle Eastern Refugee ScamsAs the chaos spreads the scammers are right there to get their piece!Scammers are exploiting these poor people and trying to poison legitimate honest help for them.Of course, as with all charities, only support well known honest organizations.The main theme is a [...]

You Were Scammed

YOU ARE NOW A CRIME SCENE So Now Act Like A Cop Not A Fool You just went through a very traumatic experience. It happened because you made a bad decision. Now is the time to stop that and make smart decisions. After you are scammed, you must keep everything. [...]

What Is More Dangerous?

Welcome to the Scammer Wasteland SCAMMERS ARE NASTY We know this, right? YOU KNOW WHAT IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN A SCAMMER? YOUR OWN CURIOSITY !!! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - A stranger sends you a friend request, and what [...]

ROMANCE SCAMS NOW™ BOOK CLUB SELECTION

RECOMMENDED BOOK: Love on the Line The RSN Team would like to bring a new book to your attention from a victim of Romance Scam: "Love on the Line: How to Recover from Romance Scams Gracefully and Without Victimisation" by Elina Juusola (Author) RSN Review: Please note, we will add [...]

SCARS STEPS – SCARS GREEN BOOK -Scam Victim Recovery Program

SCARS Steps Self-Paced Recovery Program Now Available In Book Form The SCARS GREEN BOOK To Purchase the SCARS Green Book visit Shop.AgainstScams.org SCARS OFFICIAL GREEN BOOK THE SCARS STEPS PROGRAM - SELF-HELP SELF-PACES SCAM VICTIM RECOVERY PROGRAM GUIDE A SCAM RECOVERY GUIDE FOR SCAM VICTIMS FROM SCARS The SCARS GREEN [...]

TAGS: Psychology of Scams, Romance Scams, Social Compliance, Amygdala Hijack, Gaslighting, Stranger Trust, Trauma Bonding, PTSD, Victim Syndrome, Complex, Syndromes, Victimization,


END


More Information From RomanceScamsNow.com


– – –

Tell us about your experiences with Romance Scammers in our Scams Discussion Forum on Facebook »


– – –

FAQ: How Do You Properly Report Scammers?

It is essential that law enforcement knows about scams & scammers, even though there is nothing (in most cases) that they can do.

Always report scams involving money lost or where you received money to:

  1. Local Police – ask them to take an “informational” police report – say you need it for your insurance
  2. Your National Police or FBI (www.IC3.gov)
  3. The SCARS|CDN™ Cybercriminal Data Network – Worldwide Reporting Network HERE or on www.Anyscam.com

This helps your government understand the problem, and allows law enforcement to add scammers on watch lists worldwide.


– – –

Visit our NEW Main SCARS Facebook page for much more information about scams and online crime: www.facebook.com/SCARS.News.And.Information

To learn more about SCARS visit www.AgainstScams.org

Please be sure to report all scammers HERE or on www.Anyscam.com

All original content is Copyright © 1991 – 2020 SCARS All Rights Reserved Worldwide & Webwide – RSN/Romance Scams Now & SCARS/Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams are all trademarks of Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Incorporated (formerly the Society of Citizens Against Romance Scams)

SCARS™ Subject Focus: The Psychology Of Romance Scams 2

Legal Notices: 

All original content is Copyright © 1991 – 2020 SCARS All Rights Reserved Worldwide & Webwide. Third-party copyrights acknowledge.

SCARS, RSN, Romance Scams Now, SCARS|GLOBAL, SCARS, Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams, Society of Citizens Against Romance Scams, SCARS|ANYSCAM, Project Anyscam, Anyscam, SCARS|GOFCH, GOFCH, SCARS|CHINA, SCARS|CDN, SCARS Cybercriminal Data Network, Cobalt Alert, Scam Victims Support Group, are all trademarks of Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Incorporated.

Contact the law firm for the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Incorporated by email at legal@AgainstScams.org

Share This Information - Choose Your Social Media!

Leave A Comment

Your comments help the SCARS Institute better understand all scam victim/survivor experiences and improve our services and processes. Thank you


Thank you for your comment. You may receive an email to follow up. We never share your data with marketers.