SCARS™ Insight: Can You Correctly Identify A Victim?

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SCARS™ Insight: Can You Correctly Identify A Victim?

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SCARS™ Insight: Can You Correctly Identify A Victim?

What Is A Victim?


The word is a noun, meaning:
a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action.
or a person who is tricked or duped.

Who Is A Victim Of Crime – The Legal Definition From The U.S. Department of Justice

Definition of a victim:

A victim is defined as a person who has suffered physical or emotional harm, property damage, or economic loss as a result of a crime. 

The Simplicity Of The Term

This is a surprisingly simple term and definition, yet it has historically been incredibly hard to agree upon who are victims. To this day, people want to claim victimhood status when they victimized themselves or believe that something that happened to ancestors caused their victimization. And the public, corporations, and the government many times wants to deny victim status to real victims. Social media is full of instances of victim deniers who are trolls and haters.

A victim is someone who has been affected personally in the present time directly to them.

Even someone that attempts suicide is a victim!

Why Does This Matter?

This matters because far to often Victims are blamed for their own Victimization.

Look back at the historical context and you will see countless modern examples of inappropriate denial of victim status:

  • Victims of rape were frequently blamed for being participants and not victims
  • Victims of domestic abuse are often said to want the relationship with their abuser
  • Romance scam victims are said to have voluntarily sent the money
  • Scam victims in a corporate context are said to be negligent & responsible
  • Assault victims are told they were at fault for being in the wrong place at the wrong time
  • Even Pedophiles try to blame the children for encouraging them, and many times a parent agrees

Yet we know – finally – that these (and many others) are not true. This is ignorance, anger, and fear speaking. We know this don’t we?

Simply Put

A person is a victim if harm was done to them or through them to another without their consent or their knowledge.

There May Be Things We Can Be Critical About In Victims

We may be able to be critical of victims’ behavior before or after the victimization. After all, victims are human and make mistakes, or act on their emotions. Some of this is understandable, some less so. But it does not – in any way – change the fact that they are a victim and deserving of our compassion and understanding.

Some victims can be extraordinarily hard to help due to trauma or other personality disorders. In those cases, they should be referred to the appropriate professionals.

There are even cases where a victim may support or aid the criminal that made them a victim. There are countless examples of this. They can still be under the influence of manipulation, suffering a mental disorder induced by trauma, or similar causes. But again, this does not change the fact that they are still victims. We may not be able to excuse all victims’ behavior, but we need to recognize it for what it is.

Victim Dignity

Every victim is deserving of their dignity.

One of the reasons for this alone is that almost everyone will, at some point in their lives, become a victim of something.

It is the position of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc. that all victims have The Right to be Treated with Fairness, Dignity, and Respect. 

To learn more about our position on Victims’ Dignity click here:

Now That You Have Larned …

Can you identify the victims in this infographic?

Who Are The Victims


One Last Topic

It can be incredibly hard to help other people, including victims.

We experience this all the time. We do our best to help people at the worst times of their lives (in many cases). We try to help people trapped in their rage or anger. We try to help people in total denial and there is no way to get through to them.

People who understand and try to help victims are human too, and we experience their pain vicariously. It impacts us, causes us frustration, and it is hard not to throw it back. But that is why we are professionals. For the rest of society, it is important to understand that a victim’s pain and trauma will affect you. You have to understand and deal with this within yourself.

Many times victimization can affect individuals and organizations at the same time. For example: when a family member is victimized it affects the entire family; or when a crime occurs in a company, it affects the victims but the entire company also is a victim and it is essential for the company not to take it out on the individual employee.

Supporting victims of crime has been a long time coming, and still to this day is poorly practiced professionally. There are countless traumatized victims, charlatans and fakes and amateurs, and even criminals masquerading as victims’ support entities. It is important to understand this when referring victims to appropriate support.

SCARS is a professional victims’ assistance organization, but like all nonprofits, we do what we can. If you would like to help us do more, please donate at

Remember to be kind to all victims!


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