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Scams & Magic – Patter and Rapport

Part 10

Understanding the Methods Used by Both Scammers and Magicians to Deceive

Psychology of Scams – A SCARS Insight

Author:
•  Tim McGuinness, Ph.D., DFin, MCPO, MAnth – Anthropologist, Scientist, Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.

Article Abstract

“Patter and Rapport” in both magic and scams involve dialogue and connection to engage and manipulate the audience or victim. In magic, patter includes the magician’s rehearsed script, jokes, and anecdotes that distract the audience from the trick’s mechanics, while rapport is built through eye contact, body language, and a friendly persona to create trust and engagement.

This combination makes the illusion more convincing. Similarly, in scams, patter involves crafting a narrative that resonates with the victim’s desires and values, building emotional connections through shared interests and personal stories. Rapport is established through frequent communication, flattery, and attentive listening, creating a false sense of trust and intimacy.

The psychological effects in both contexts include lowered defenses, increased trust, and distraction from potential red flags, making the audience or victim more susceptible to manipulation. Recognizing these techniques can help individuals maintain a critical perspective and avoid deception.

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Patter and Rapport in Magic and Scams

Patter and Rapport In Magic

“Patter and Rapport” refers to the dialogue and connection a magician establishes with the audience during a performance. Patter includes the magician’s verbal script, jokes, anecdotes, or explanations used to narrate the trick and maintain audience engagement. This dialogue is often rehearsed to appear spontaneous, helping to distract the audience from the mechanics of the trick and guide their attention.

Rapport, on the other hand, involves building a connection with the audience. A magician might use eye contact, body language, and tone of voice to create a friendly and trustworthy persona. The goal is to make the audience feel comfortable and engaged, which can lower their guard and make them more receptive to the performance.

Psychological Effects in Magic:

The patter and rapport serve several psychological purposes. First, they distract the audience, focusing their attention on the magician’s words and story rather than on the method behind the trick. Second, they create a sense of trust and connection, making the audience more likely to believe in the illusion. By establishing rapport, the magician can manipulate the audience’s perception and focus, making the final reveal or trick more surprising and convincing.

Patter and Rapport In Scams:

In relationship scams, patter and rapport play a crucial role in establishing and maintaining the con. Scammers use patter to create a narrative that resonates with the victim’s desires, interests, and values. This narrative often includes shared interests, personal stories, or expressions of affection that seem genuine and tailored to the victim. The patter is carefully crafted to build an emotional connection, often appealing to the victim’s emotions, such as loneliness, empathy, or romantic desires.

Rapport in scams is about building trust and a sense of intimacy. Scammers use various communication techniques, including flattery, attentive listening, and frequent communication, to create a sense of closeness and familiarity. They might mirror the victim’s language, use terms of endearment, and consistently show interest in the victim’s life and feelings.

Psychological Effects in Scams:

The psychological impact of patter and rapport in scams is significant. By engaging the victim with compelling stories and emotional appeals, scammers create a false sense of connection and trust. This rapport makes the victim more likely to believe the scammer’s words and intentions, lowering their skepticism and making them more vulnerable to manipulation.

The patter can also serve to distract the victim from potential red flags. Just as in magic, where the audience is focused on the magician’s words rather than the trick’s mechanics, the victim’s attention is diverted away from inconsistencies or suspicious behavior. The rapport-building creates a psychological bond, making the victim less likely to question the scammer’s motives or actions.

Comparison and Conclusion:

In both magic and scams, patter and rapport are tools used to manipulate perception and build trust. Magicians use these techniques to engage and entertain, creating a sense of wonder and amazement. Scammers, however, use them to exploit and deceive, creating a false sense of intimacy and trust.

The key to both is the ability to connect with the audience or victim on an emotional level. In magic, this connection enhances the performance, while in scams, it is used to manipulate and control the victim’s actions. The psychological effects include lowered defenses, increased trust, and a distraction from the true nature of the situation.

For scam victims, recognizing the use of patter and rapport can be a crucial step in protecting themselves. Understanding that these techniques are deliberately used to manipulate emotions and perceptions can help victims maintain a critical perspective and avoid falling into the trap of deception.

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