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A Victim’s Story: A Romance Scam Victim Speaks Out

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Commentary From Individual Victims Who Desperately Want To Be Heard

Here Is An Editorial That Came From One Victim A While Ago, And We Are Reprinting It For Our Current Viewer’s Benefit

We have withheld the victim’s name for her privacy.

The Victim Sent An Email To GhanaWeb That Was Reprinted There:

I am the victim of a scammer who lives in Accra Ghana.  He went by the name of Jeffrey James Weller, and his associate was Jeffrey Osei Owusu (I believe them to be one in the same person) He stole $3,000 from me under the guise of friendship and love.  Yes I was niave and shouldn’t have sent him anything and some would say it’s my own fault, but others would agrue that I was taken advantage of.

I do not feel sorry for myself over this.  I accept the consequences of my actions.  I am more educated now and more cautious when I meet men, especially men who say they are currently living or working in Africa, in particular in Ghana as I’ve been approached by many men who live in Ghana.  Once bitten, twice shy….I look at this as a life lesson and am trying to turn a negative experience into a positive one.

I’d like to know why they think that it’s okay…that this is acceptable..and even a desierable way to make money.  This is not a job! This is criminal!  This is cruel beyond your wildest dreams.  Don’t tell me it’s to survive because there are always other options..I do not believe that.  To me it’s just another form of prostitution…you are selling yourself out and damning your soul to hell for what you are doing and for what?

I’d also like to know why the Ghanaian government doesn’t crack down more on this sort of thing.  What are the procedures for reporting this kind of behavor to the Ghanaian authorities?  How does this all work??  Who can I contact about this?  Is there a task force? A central body that investigates internet crime and romance scammers?  What are the procedures?

There Was No Response On The GhanaWeb Site, So The Victim Thought They Would Respond For Everyone’s Benefit:

Why doesn’t the Ghana Government crack down?  Because they generally don’t care.  The government of Ghana views this the way Nigeria used to view it, as economic development and a way to bring in much needed cash into the economy.  But according to the same website:

Some people may say what harm is scamming?  Isn’t it just a case of the African taking back what is theirs and getting payment from the rest of the world for the injustices of the past?  Maybe that is how some scammers view it but I see it differently.

What they don’t realize is that they are truly hurting their country that many profess to love dearly.  The impact is huge and multi-faceted…it costs the government on many levels… because it is not taxed and so they are not getting their share to help to improve the economic situation and programs of your countr….the poor are getting poorer…it makes investors shy away from Ghana and Africa as a whole due to the bad reputation…legitimate businesses are reluctant to invest there and open operations in a country known for scamming…and the scammers do not learn work ethic and they have no marketable skills –  they are not increasing their country’s brain power and applying themselves to legitimate businesses that help the country grow and prosper.

The reality is they feel they are entitled to steal.  And it isn’t just Ghana, THEY ARE ALL LIKE THIS!

As long as governments permit this, and that includes the Philippines, Indonesia, Malaysia, Russia, Ukraine, and especially Ghana, Nigeria, and Ivory Coast, it will never end.  The tragedy is that it destroys hope.

SCARS EDITOR’S NOTE:

We do not believe the current government of Ghana is interested in reducing or stopping scamming in their country and they let continue to be a drain on the talent of their youth in addition to a black mark against their country. Currently, the U.S. Department of Justice is working with African nations to improve policing and prosecutorial professionalism – which has substantially improved arrest rates in Nigeria.

We believe that continued pressure is the key to keeping Ghana’s attention on this global problem and maintain its willingness to address it.

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  1. Victim's Story: A Romance Scam Victim Speaks Out - 2013 a092c7bbe4efd7130b7620aac8d34456ad1bc77548df8d064fed41229b717349?s=54&d=identicon&r=g
    HENRY NATHAN December 22, 2015 at 7:29 pm - Reply

    He was slick reckonfromspace, quiet funny took his time. Too me for my life, loans, my name, Henry nathan, name, geologist , said us citizen, state dirt said no, 2 kids, heavy accent, funny, voy geologist con tract lagos, nigeris, started freezing out, never showed up 10 times was supposed to. Turned over to nigerian police hope they get all of them, beware of name Bonnie Crump, pucks up money Mansfield Ohio.

    • Victim's Story: A Romance Scam Victim Speaks Out - 2013 c40607e8da376555cdf25ebd12f8240ef899cd9030c17e9bb4a6c8b82971c780?s=54&d=identicon&r=g
      Terri Tucker June 30, 2016 at 1:10 am - Reply

      Somebody hacked a comment supposed me Terri Tucker calling Henry nathan now my husband hackers not me. Please remove immediatly. He’s no hacker

      Terri Tucker Nathan

      • Victim's Story: A Romance Scam Victim Speaks Out - 2013 995b860d38c7859697d439636aae8d1815d6f6676d133c5ba749a798ce0dda08?s=54&d=identicon&r=g
        Romance Scams Now Editorial Team June 30, 2016 at 2:44 am - Reply

        We don’t see any mention as you describe. Feel free to send us an email with any proof that you have. Our email is info@RomanceScamsNow.com

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If you need to speak with someone now, you can dial 988 or find phone numbers for crisis hotlines all around the world here: www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines

A Note About Labeling!

We often use the term ‘scam victim’ in our articles, but this is a convenience to help those searching for information in search engines like Google. It is just a convenience and has no deeper meaning. If you have come through such an experience, YOU are a Survivor! It was not your fault. You are not alone! Axios!

A Question of Trust

At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.

Statement About Victim Blaming

Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.

These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.

Articles like these help victims and others understand these processes and how to help prevent them from being exploited again or to help them recover more easily by understanding their post-scam behaviors. Learn more about the Psychology of Scams at www.ScamPsychology.org

Psychology Disclaimer:

All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only

The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.

While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.

Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.

If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.

Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.

If you are in crisis, feeling desperate, or in despair please call 988 or your local crisis hotline.