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Victims As Activists & Why Many Scam Victims Should Delay Or Not Become One

A SCARS Insight

Scam Victims Can Become Powerful Activists But Many Should Not Try To Help Others

The U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Victims of Crime Noted:

Long after the physical wounds have healed, many crime victims continue to feel overwhelmed by the psychic pain of loss, powerlessness, low self-esteem, isolation, fear, and rage feelings that often are shared by their family and friends, as well as by the extended community.

From the ashes of the crime, victims and their families are often struggling to rebuild their own lives.

Victim As Activist

Through community activism, many individuals have transformed their pain into power, helping change society, and healing themselves in the process. SCARS’ own history is based upon this principle.

Moving from the personal to the activist role, many work to correct causes of crime that are systemic, such as internet crimes and other forms of financial fraud; to hold those who commit crimes accountable, and to enact victim-sensitive reforms and programs. As the crime victims’ movement enters its fifth decade, advocates should look for ways to nurture victims’ desires to help others by providing educational and organizational opportunities for community action. This is at the core of the SCARS Mission.

Without intervention, victims can become chronically dysfunctional and afraid to venture out in their life, unable to work productively, alienated from neighbors and friends, distrustful of police and courts, and overly dependent on social services. Their withdrawal from life hurts their families and weakens the fabric of the community.

Individual counseling and practical assistance help people deal with the psychological aftermath of crime and reconstruct a sense of equilibrium. When crime victims move from their personal experiences to a broader social analysis and to activism, they can also aid their own recovery from the trauma of victimization. Recognizing or addressing the social conditions that lead to crime and victimization is important. Helping other victims, working to change laws, or mobilizing crime prevention initiatives can help some victims and survivors regain a sense of control and channel their fear and rage into efforts for reform.

Grassroots Efforts

The history of grassroots efforts in other movements shows that community activism can be a powerful catalyst for social change.

Individual stakeholders, such as those whose lives were directly affected by a specific type of crime have brought about landmark reforms. The movements for civil rights, elder rights, welfare, environmental protection, and AIDS research and treatment have been spearheaded by those directly affected by the issues. Like crime victim activism, each of these movements arose from victimizing conditions of neglect, persecution, or marginalization; and the involvement of “victimized” individuals legitimized the cause.

Being A Victim

A crucial step toward activism may be the individual’s self-identification as a member of a group victimized by particular social conditions. Yet within the crime victims’ and battered women’s movements, the “victim” label remains controversial. Some believe it is a stigmatizing label that hinders recovery and reinforces society’s perception of victims as helpless, hopeless, and dependent. Others see it as an empowering identification that promotes connection with others and spurs community involvement.

SCARS prefers the term “Survivor” for those that have moved past the initial stage of discovery and into the process of recovery. Unfortunately, the term Victim lingers and is used to help those victimized to find the information they need.

Concerns Regarding Victim Activism

Though beneficial for many, becoming a victim activist is not a required step in trauma recovery and may be very much a problem for many.

Because people recover in different ways and have different needs, activism and community action are not appropriate for all crime victims.

The individual’s personality and history of victimization may play a role in determining whether this involvement will be helpful to recovery, while the availability of emotional and financial supports may be a big factor in determining whether the victim has the time and energy to spend on activist issues. Some victims of crime, though able to lead normal lives, may never feel prepared to deal with the pain of others (be lacking empathy) or the frustrations of advocacy efforts.

Being a victim may not be enough by itself to lead to successful activism; there is real evidence that victims who become active in community efforts are likely to have been activists before the crime. More importantly, those that are emotionally stable enough to become activist are also best able to recover from the experience. Those that remain in denial, anger, and rage, are least able to become successful activists, and may, in fact, be very harmful to other victims and their recovery.

In the absence of clear criteria for when activism is likely to benefit a traumatized individual, a victim’s own interest and desire to participate should be the determining factor. Rather than prescribing activism as a necessary part of the recovery process, professionals can provide people with opportunities for action, and support those who choose to get involved.

Criteria That Should Exclude Victims From Activism:

  • Obsessive need for justice – to make sure that criminal pay for their crimes
  • Focus only on specific elements of process that may serve no real purpose or not be effective
  • Belief in their own knowledge or expertise in crime and criminal methods with no real training or experience
  • A desperate need to save others
  • The belief that other professionals or advocates are doing nothing to help
  • Being unwilling to explore other approaches created by other professional advocates
  • Being unwilling to support existing activism organizations, believing they have to do it alone and by themselves
  • Be driven by rage or anger in their activist decisions
  • Wanting to take revenge or obtain vengeance
  • Very new victims feeling they must do something, anything, to change things before they have even fully recognized their own situation

These are all reasons why crime victims that feel these should not become involved in activism, but instead, address these issues through counseling or professional care before becoming involved.

Timing

Timing is also an important consideration in activism and community involvement. Advocating for legislative reform or helping others before coming to terms with their own trauma do impede many victims’ recovery, and can derail it or even prevent it. Lebowitz,

One study noted that what they call the third stage of trauma recovery-reconnecting with others-should not be attempted until the earlier steps of achieving a sense of safety and exploring and integrating the traumatic event have been achieved. Unless they have reached this stage, victims may be unable to cope with other people’s trauma on top of their own. Listening to others’ crime stories may exacerbate fears and bring back disturbing, even overwhelming, memories of their own experiences, thereby retraumatizing them.

Research on MADD’s Victim Impact Panels has shown that the act of speaking out was beneficial for the overwhelming majority (87 percent) of participants; the few participants (3 percent) who felt they were harmed by it had become involved too close (recover) to the incident-they were still using coping strategies, such as denial, that conflicted with telling their stories publicly. This suggests that victims who invest themselves in advocacy efforts too soon are taking on more than they are ready to handle. If individual change is difficult, societal change is even harder, especially in the face of their greater challenges. To avoid these pitfalls, activism generally should be encouraged later rather than earlier in the recovery process.

In the SCARS recovery process, we attempt to help victims recognize their capacity to help others while discouraging activism until they are ready for it. Once we see stability in victims and a sincere desire  (as opposed to a manic desire) to help others, we provide substantial moderated opportunities to help others.

Feelings Of Exploitation

Certain types of activism may cause victims to feel exploited, potentially revictimizing them and setting back their recovery.

For example, some victims who have spoken out that they feel that they have been taken advantage of that their messages were misrepresented or their words cut or edited to alter their meaning. In an attempt to make a story more compelling, some journalists recast victim identities, portraying them as powerless and pitiable rather than empowered and brave (Dr. Phil?).

As a result, this has made many victims feel embarrassed or betrayed and made them less likely to speak out in the future. To avoid revictimization and to appropriately access the power of the media, victim activists need to understand how the media works – for example, that their page-one story may fade completely from the news a day later. Victim services organizations (such as SCARS) can provide training for crime victim activists as to what they might expect from working with the media. And the news media need to become sensitive to the risk of revictimization as well as the value of victim activism.

A good example of this is the SCARS relationship with many media organizations, such as National Geographic. Recently, SCARS aided National Geographic in the development of episodes about scams, scammers, and scam victims. This included helping several victims prepare for interviews and monitoring the National Geographic TV crew in their interactions with these survivors. The scam survivors’ interviews reported to SCARS that this was a positive experience and that they felt better after it.

The Victim Label

Finally, some victims interested in activism may not feel comfortable getting involved through organizations that are labeled as “victim” activist or “victim” assistance, which is one reason why other community groups-religious institutions, community organizations, neighborhood and parent groups, and other formal and informal organizations should support crime prevention and activist efforts.

For this reason, the actual SCARS name is Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc., and we define ourselves as a crime victims’ assistance AND crime prevention organization. However, the problem always remains that these terms are critical in finding us through Google and many other platforms, so we are sensitive to the issues while having to continue the use of these terms.

Some individuals who already had ties with other groups may feel more comfortable taking action in familiar settings (such as AARP) within their support networks than venturing into new organizations. Thus, institutions outside the victim field have also become supportive of victims, and recognize that victim involvement can benefit both their own individual members’ well-being and their efforts for community improvement. However, the one big difference is the level of professionalism and experience is embodied in organizations like SCARS and not in the other different-focused organizations.

Summary

Most victims should avoid activism for an extended period of time until they have healed sufficiently that they can make informed decisions about their mental health, recovery, and motivation. Victims that immediately (within their first year after the crime) are likely to be facing one of the issues defined above that can lead to long-term instability and the postponement of their recovery.

Far too often, victims rush out in their manic zeal to just do something and end up in the hands of individuals and groups that lead them into worse decisions. The best decision for a new victim is to focus on recovering from their experience working to obtain support from real professionals, and wait until the time is right for them to play a more activist role. It is important though to understand that striking off on their own undermines the cumulative benefits of working with real organizations – more voices only help when they are telling a single story, otherwise, the message is lost in the chaos. – 10,000 anti-scam groups help no one.

We hope this information will help all victims put their desire to help in context and allow them to better understand when and how activism can be appropriate for them personally.

SCARS Programs

SCARS is a professional nonprofit assistance and crime prevention organization with a 30-year track record.

SCARS provides programs to:

  • Educate the public to avoid scams, financial fraud, and cyber-enabled crime
  • Help victims discover that they are in a scam or fraud and how to escape from it
  • Help new victims regain control and to move forward
  • Provide formal recovery programs and approaches to benefit traumatized victims
  • Refers victims to allied professionals from counselors and therapists, to attorneys, to financial professionals, to law enforcement
  • Provide forums where victims can develop communities and share their voices
  • Volunteer programs to help survivors help other victims compassionately and safely
  • Local activist programs to help law enforcement better understand how to interact with victims
  • Local activism to help people learn about scams, victims, and strategies to provide support
  • How to sanely begin new partner groups understand the established international standards to help other victims directly
  • How to effectively participate in programs and projects to counter and prevent crime

Anyone that is interested in the SCARS advocacy programs is welcome to contact us at contact@againstscams.org or sign up to become a volunteer instantly on www.AgainstScams.org

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  1. Victims As Activists & Why Many Scam Victims Should Delay Or Not Become One 1
    Corey Gale September 20, 2024 at 11:26 am - Reply

    There is a reason why airlines want you to secure your own oxygen mask before helping others with theirs.

  2. Victims As Activists & Why Many Scam Victims Should Delay Or Not Become One 2
    Carmen Rivera September 18, 2024 at 12:58 pm - Reply

    Putting us first is the best way to recover from a traumatic experience, such as romance scam. However, if you were lucky enough to find a helping hand, such as SCARS, their members, your counselor or however lead you into recovery, it should be a moral responsibility to pay back by helping others, when the time is right.

Your comments help the SCARS Institute better understand all scam victim/survivor experiences and improve our services and processes. Thank you


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If you need to speak with someone now, you can dial 988 or find phone numbers for crisis hotlines all around the world here: www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines

A Note About Labeling!

We often use the term ‘scam victim’ in our articles, but this is a convenience to help those searching for information in search engines like Google. It is just a convenience and has no deeper meaning. If you have come through such an experience, YOU are a Survivor! It was not your fault. You are not alone! Axios!

A Question of Trust

At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.

Statement About Victim Blaming

Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.

These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.

Articles like these help victims and others understand these processes and how to help prevent them from being exploited again or to help them recover more easily by understanding their post-scam behaviors. Learn more about the Psychology of Scams at www.ScamPsychology.org

Psychology Disclaimer:

All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only

The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.

While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.

Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.

If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.

Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.

If you are in crisis, feeling desperate, or in despair please call 988 or your local crisis hotline.