
SCARS Institute’s Encyclopedia of Scams™ Published Continuously for 25 Years

Every Scam Victim Need To Tell Their Story
An excerpt from our upcoming SCARS Gold Book on Telling Your Story
First, understand that this is not going to be easy! But it is easier than hiding the secret inside!
By sharing your story you will reduce your trauma and improve your chances for a solid recovery!
How Can You Explain What Happened To Family And Friends? If you do this, no one should blame you. No one should shame you.
- The simplest explanation is the best explanation.
- They mostly want to know if you are alright!
- They will be concerned about your future stability!
- Be honest – do not conceal – but you can exclude
- Share your true emotional state! It begins with your initial preparation of the facts.
This is presented by SCARS Directors: Dr. Tim McGuinness and Debby Montgomery Johnson
Duration: 69 Minutes
Learn more about telling your story here: How To Explain It To Others
To learn more about the topics covered in this webinar visit:
- How To Explain It To Others
- Reporting Scammers – How To Tell Your Story To Your Local Police!
- 3 Steps For New Victims
- A Scam Victim’s Checklist
- Understanding Law Enforcement
- How Do You Get Closure?
- Why Reporting Matters?
- Reporting To The Local Police
- Reporting Romance Scams: Why Survivors Often Don’t
- 2022 Scam Update – A Podcast With Dr. Tim McGuinness And Debby Montgomery Johnson
- Psychology of Scams & Victim Trauma – Article Catalog
- Recovering from Scams – Article Catalog
- Information For Family & Friends – Article Catalog
- Money Mules & Money Laundering – Article Catalog
To learn more about who SCARS is visit www.AgainstScams.org To find a local counselor or therapist visit either: www.opencounseling.com and www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/trauma-and-ptsd If you are looking for a support group please contact us at: www.facebook.com/groups/SCARS.Avoidance.Information.Public.Group
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