Is It Amour – Or Scam-More?

Online romance may begin with Panic!

It begins with High Hopes, but all too often it ends with the conclusion that – to quote the J. Geils Band – Love Stinks.

According to the United States Federal Trade Commission

Far be it from us to put a damper on Valentine’s Day, but reports to the FTC’s Consumer Sentinel Network suggest that the injury inflicted by romance scams is on the rise. According to the new Data Spotlight, “For three years running, people have reported losing more money on romance scams than on any other fraud type identified in Sentinel. In 2020, reported losses to romance scams reached a record $304 million, up about 50% from 2019. For an individual, that meant a median dollar loss of $2,500.”

Why the increase? The continued popularity of dating apps is part of the story, but the pandemic has played a part, too. For right now, the need for social distancing and masking makes the “meet cute” at the local coffee shop less likely. Of course, we’ve all heard heart-warming stories of romances that started on-screen and blossomed IRL, but the Data Spotlight suggests that at least some of those digital dalliances may be hiding something more sinister.

What does that have to do with you? We thought you’d never ask. Chances are that someone you know – a friend or family member perhaps – has a long-distance love they have yet to meet. A subtle word from you about the telltale signs of a romance scam could mean one less report to Consumer Sentinel in 2021 about a heartbroken and a wallet emptied by a romance scammer.

It can be a difficult topic to broach, but we have a sure-fire opener: “I just read the most fascinating thing on the website of the Federal Trade Commission, America’s consumer protection agency.” (What? That’s not your typical conversation starter? No Valentine for you!)

Regardless of how you bring up the topic, Valentine’s Day offers a way to share some heart-to-heart hints.

Romance scams can happen to anyone. According to the FTC’s Data Spotlight, reports of money lost on romance scams increased for every age group in 2020. The 20-29 crowd saw the most notable spike, with the number of reports more than doubling since 2019. People between 40 and 69 were once again the most likely to report losing money to romance scams.

And people 70+ reported the highest individual median losses at $9,475 (the average)

Every picture tells a story, but most of those stories are fiction. Knowing that fetching photos can lure in a love, scammers routinely steal people’s photos and pass themselves off as the person in the picture.

To investigate their identity, try a reverse-image search of their profile picture or other photos they send you. If the picture is associated with another name or if the details don’t match up, you’re dealing with a scammer. However, do not try to track down the person pictured – trust us, they know their photos are being used! Learn more about that here.

Don’t mix romance with finance.

We always caution people not to wire money or send gift cards to online loves, but we have a new tip to add.

Don’t let your guard down just because that special someone sends you money first. You can bet the money’s stolen. Next, they’ll want you to send it on for some cooked-up reason. This is how people become unwitting accomplices to money laundering (become a MULE).

As soon as the requests for money start, it’s time to – depending on your musical generation – Go Your Own Way, bid them Bye Bye Bye, or make it clear that We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together.

Remember, this is ONLY what was reported to the FTC

SCARS & the Cybersecurity industry estimate that relationship scams are a USD$700,000,000,000 (700 billion) a year industry!

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