(Last Updated On: January 17, 2022)

Spotting Nigerian Scammers – Nigerian Phrases

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Most Victims Stay In A ScamScam A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime -  is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. Far Too Long!

This is because while they suspect it is a scam, they do not have the confidence to cut it off.

The reason that they lack confidence is partner because of the extended period of time they were being manipulated, and specifically Gaslighted to undermine their confidence. But it is also because they are looking for concrete proof that it is a scam.

The proof is unnecessary because if you suspect it is a scam – then simply it is! However, for those that cannot accept this simple fact, the following will help trap scammers into giving away their Nigerian origins.

Nigerians use a lot of local dialects, slang,  and shorthand words for one another, these words and phrases are not only from their indigenous Nigerian languages but sometimes they are also in Pidgin English or are English terms with the meaning corrupted.

To learn more about how Scammers Use Endearments and Why click here.

How To Use?

Your scammer is going to use texts and email as their primary communication method. This means a mountain of written conversations.

During your conversations, it is easy to slip in certain trap words or phrases into your replies. Most of the time, they will not even be noticed, since they are in their native tongue. When the scammer replies as tough they understood and does not question the word or phrase, you can be sure – at least after a couple of setups that you are speaking with a Nigerian.

Just be careful not to flood the conversation with Nigerian terms. Use one or two in critical passages of text, and see what happens. You can use one or two in each message, but not too many or your scammers will catch on!

Also remember that Nigerian is a country of 206 million people, and has 500 languages, so everything depends on what language they natively speak. Many phrases are universal in Nigeria.

Nigerian Vocabulary

Here is an extensive list of Nigerian Words & Phrases:

  • Aboki (ABO-KI) – Meaning “my friend” this nickname is used to refer to northerners.
  • Agbalagba (AG-BA-LA-GBA) – This Yoruba nickname is used usually to hail people of high financial status and in some cases older people.
  • Agbero­ – This Yoruba nickname is used to refer to street urchins. Although, its correct meaning is for members of the National road transport union workers.
  • Ajebutter (AJE-BUTTER) – This nickname is used for people of the upper class.
  • Alabi Yellow – A popular Yoruba actor; it is used as a nickname used by Yoruba’s for light-skinned people. Similar to Oyinbo.
  • Amebo – This nickname is popularly used for gossips sometimes as a joke, other times as a way to tell them off.
  • Asewo/Ashawo – It means Slut.
  • Attaché – This is a friend who remains your friend simply for the benefits they enjoy receiving from you.
  • Baba – common endearment phrase – instead of Baby
  • Baba Kukuru (Cuckoo-roo) – Yoruba term. It means “Short man.”
  • Baba Nla – Yoruba term. It is similar to the term “Big Boss.”
  • Badoo – It means “Bad Guy.” It is used as a nickname for someone who is cool.
  • Big Boy/Man/Woman – This nickname is often used to refer to anyone who is financially ok.
  • Blackie – If you’re dark-skinned, then you probably would be called blackie this nickname is however not as popular in most parts of Nigeria and it is very rare.
  • Bobo (BO-BO) – This nickname is often used to refer to a chubby child.
  • Boss – This nickname is used among male friends to hail one another.
  • Butty – When a Nigerian calls you butty, it means you must belong to the upper class and or act like one.
  • Capo – A nickname used to refer to cult leaders.
  • Chairman – When a Nigerian calls you chairman; it means they hold you in high regard. This nickname is used by Nigerians to hail friends and acquaintances.
  • Chargie – This nickname has also gained popularity among Nigerian youths, often time used to refer to female partners.
  • Daddy – Similar to mummy, Nigerians also use daddy to refer to a father and attach the names of their children to it such as Daddy Bola, Daddy Ngozi.
  • Efiko/Efiwe – A popular nickname for a brilliant guy.
  • Hood – Home, hometown, area of residence.
  • Fela – The afrobeat legend. A slim person could be called Fela because was slim. But the most popular usage is for a slim person that smokes a lot. Similar to using “Bob Marley” as a nickname.
  • FFO – “For Food Only” this nickname is right for anyone who eats a lot.
  • NFA – It means “No Future Ambition.”
  • Pako – It means “hardened.”
  • Street – Its closest translation would be “Street Smart”
  • G-boy – people who engage in cyber fraudFraud In law, fraud is intentional deception to secure unfair or unlawful gain (money or other assets), or to deprive a victim of a legal right. Fraud can violate civil law (e.g., a fraud victim may sue the fraud perpetrator to avoid the fraud or recover monetary compensation) or criminal law (e.g., a fraud perpetrator may be prosecuted and imprisoned by governmental authorities), or it may cause no loss of money, property, or legal right but still be an element of another civil or criminal wrong. The purpose of fraud may be monetary gain or other benefits, for example by obtaining a passport, travel document, or driver's license, or mortgage fraud, where the perpetrator may attempt to qualify for a mortgage by way of false statements. A fraud can also be a hoax, which is a distinct concept that involves deliberate deception without the intention of gain or of materially damaging or depriving a victim. are called G-boys by Nigerians.
  • IJGB – “I Just Got Back” is a Nigerian nickname for Nigerian returnees from overseas who most times only for the holidays.
  • Igwe – It means King, in Ibo language.
  • Ole – It means thief. Depending on pronunciation, it could also mean laziness in Yoruba.
  • Barawo – It means thief.
  • ITK – “I too know” this nickname is used for overly serious students and those who like to act like they know it all.
  • Kele (KE-LE) – Meaning “girls” this nickname is used to refer to the female gender.
  • Madam – Female bosses are called madam in Nigeria, in some cases “oga madam”.
  • Maga/ Maye – This doesn’t mean “Make America Great Again,” rather it is the word used for victims of internet scamsScams A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime -  is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost.. It has evolved to become a nickname for anyone who was scammed.
  • Mallam (Maal-am) – It is an honorific title given to Islamic scholars but it is commonly used by Southerners to refer to Northerners.
  • Marlian – A nickname for fans of popular Nigerian artist Naira Marley. If you’re a Marlian then you are a member of the NBG (No Belt GangGang A gang is normally a group or society of associated criminals with a defined leadership and internal organization that identifies with or claims control over a territory or business practice in a community and engages, either individually or collectively, in illegal, and possibly violent, behavior. Online gangs are not limited by territory and may operate side by side with other gangs while engaging in crime online. Some members of criminal gangs are initiated (by going through a process of initiation), or have to prove their loyalty and right to belong by committing certain acts, usually theft or violence, or rituals. Gangs are usually rougher and more visible than scammer cartels, and more often arrested.).
  • Mummy – Although an English word for mother, Nigerians also use mummy when referring to a mother and usually attach the name of their children behind. For instance, Mummy Bola, Mummy Ngozi.
  • Mumu – It is a mean nickname used to indicate someone isn’t smart or was outsmarted in a situation.
  • Mutu mina (MUTU-MINA) – Meaning “my guy” this nickname is used among friends to hail each other.
  • Oga – This nickname is often used by Nigerians to refer to their bosses.
  • Ogbeni – A Yoruba nickname used to refer to a person.
  • Olosho/Hoeloshfelao – It means Slut.
  • Olowo (OH–LOW-WOE) – It means a rich person.
  • Omoge (HUM-OR-GAY) – Meaning “young lady” a Yoruba nickname for a young woman.
  • Omo-mo – More popular in Benin, it implies “bourgeoisie,” “pampered.”
  • Omo Mummy – “Omo Mummy,” translates to “mummy’s boy.”
  • Ore (OR-RARE) – Meaning “my friend” this Yoruba nickname is also used by friends to refer to each other.
  • Oyinbo – This nickname is used to refer to foreigners especially white people, it is in no way condescending, and instead, it’s simply a sign of familiarity.
  • Pale (PA-LE) – A nickname for father.
  • Popsy / Momsy – Nicknames used by youths to refer to their parents.
  • Sisi (C-C) – It means Lady.
  • Slay Queen/Slay Mama – English equivalent would be “Barbie.”
  • Smallie – Used to refer to people who are smaller in size and height.
  • Smellos – Smellos are generally people who fail to keep up with trends. Who in Nigerian terms “are still sleeping on a bicycle”?
  • Tallie – Nigerians use this nickname to refer to very tall people. This is, however, is just a form of endearment, not body shaming in any way.
  • Tush – This is a nickname used as a description of a refined person.
  • Yellow Pawpaw – This is an affectionate name for really light-skinned Nigerians.

Nigerian Nicknames for Couples

Depending on their tribal nation, couples in Nigeria often refer to themselves using nicknames in their indigenous languages. Here are some Nigerian nicknames for boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, and wives:

English Romantic Nicknames/Endearments used By Nigerians

  • Baba
  • Babe
  • Boo
  • Dear/My Dear
  • Boyfriend/Girlfriend
  • Honey

Yoruba Pet Names/Endearments

  • Ife miIfe mi means “my love” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: A Gender-neutral Yoruba pet name that can be used for a loved one; boyfriend, girlfriend, or daughter.

  • AyanfeAyanfe means “Beloved” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Ayanfe is a Gender-neutral Yoruba pet name used by couples; boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, or crush.

  • Ololufe (OLO-LU-FE): Ololufe means “my love” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Ololufe is a Gender-neutral Yoruba pet name that can be used for a lover; boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, or crush.

  • IyawoIyawo means “wife” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Iyawo is a feminine Yoruba pet name used for a girlfriend, wife, crush, or even daughter.

  • Aya miAya mi means “my wife” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Aya Mi has the same meaning as Iyawo. Aya mi is a feminine Yoruba pet name used for a girlfriend, wife, crush, or even daughter.

  • Oko Mi (Oko-MI): Oko Mi means “My Husband” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Oko Mi, a masculine term, can be used as a Yoruba nickname for a husband, boyfriend, crush, or even Son.

  • Olowo Ori Mi (OLO-WO-ORI-MI): Olowo Ori Mi means “Payer of my bride price” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Olowo Ori Mi is a masculine term because Men pay the bride price. Olowo Ori Mi is a Yoruba pet nickname that a lady can call a guy she adores; her husband, boyfriend, crush, or son.

  • Alade Ori mi (AL-ADE-ORI-MI): Alade Ori Mi, the Yoruba term of endearment, roughly translates to “owner of my crown.” It is best translated to mean “my King/My Queen.”

Usage: Alade Ori mi is a Gender-neutral Yoruba pet name that can be used for a loved one; boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, son, or daughter.

  • Ewa: Ewa means “beautiful” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Ewa is a feminine Yoruba pet name that can be used for a loved one; boyfriend, girlfriend, or daughter.

  • Onitemi (O-NI-TE-MI): Onitemi means “Mine” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: A Gender-neutral Yoruba pet name that can be used for a loved one; boyfriend, girlfriend, or daughter.

  • Ododo mi (ODO-DO-MI): Ododo mi means “my flower” in the Yoruba language.

Usage: Ododo mi is a Yoruba pet nickname used by husbands to refer to how precious their wives are to them.

Igbo Pet Names/Endearments

  • Adanma (HARDER-N-MA) – It is similar to calling a lady your “Beautiful princess.”
  • Dim oma (DIM-OMAH) – Meaning “my good husband”, this Igbo nickname is used by wives to describe their loving husband.
  • Usom (USO-M) – Meaning “my sweetie” this Igbo nickname is a form of endearments used by husbands to refer to their wives.
  • Ola edo’m (OLA- EDO-M) – Meaning “my gold”, husbands often use this Igbo nickname to describe how precious their wives are to them.
  • Onyenkem (ONYE-NKEM) – Meaning “my own” this Igbo nickname is used as a form of endearment by husbands to their wives.
  • Nwa nwa (NWA-NWA) – Meaning “baby daddy”, wives use this Igbo nickname as a form of endearment to refer to the father of their children.
  • Obi uto”m (OBI-TO-M) – Meaning “my happiness” this Igbo nickname is used by couples to describe how happy they make each other.
  • Obim (OBI-M) – Meaning “my heart “, Obim is used in the Igbo language by couples to show how much they care about their partner.

Hausa Pet Names/Endearments

  • Zuciyata (ZU-CI-YA-TA) – Meaning “my heart” this Hausa nickname reminds couples of who their hearts belong to.
  • Kambi na (KAMBI-NA) – Meaning “my crown” this Hausa nickname describes wives as the crow of their husbands.
  • Mai Gida (MAI-GI-DA) – Meaning “house head” is often used as an endearing term for husbands in Hausa households.
  • Masoyina (MA-SOY-INAH) – Meaning “My love” this nickname is used by Hausa couples as a declaration of their love for each other.
  • Sonraina (SON-RAY-NA) – Meaning “love of my life” this Hausa nickname is simply a declaration of a couple’s love.
  • Ta wa (TA-WA) – Meaning “mine” this nickname is used among Hausa couples as a reminder that they belong to one another.

Other Nigerian Pet Names/Endearments

  • Adibo (ADI-BOH) – Meaning “paragon of beauty” you can use this Egbema Ijaw nickname for your beautiful wife.
  • Awaan mmi (NW-AN-MI) – Meaning “my wife” husbands use this name to refer to their wives in Ibibio.
  • Dooshima (DO-SHE-MA) – Meaning “love” couple use this Tiv nickname interchangeably to remind themselves of their love for one another.
  • Ebe mmi (EBE-MI) – Meaning “my husband” wives use this name to refer to their husbands in Ibibio.
  • Egbewei (EGBE-WEI) – Meaning “worthy one” use this Egbema Ijaw nickname to remind your partner of how much they mean to you.
  • Eniere (ENI-EREH) – Meaning “my wife” is an Egbema Ijaw nickname for a wife.
  • Enizei (ENI-ZEI) – Meaning “my husband” is an Egbema Ijaw nickname for a husband.
  • Ima Ima (EMAH-EMAH) – Meaning “my love” couples refer to themselves using this name in the Ibibio language.
  • Tor – Meaning “king” this Tiv nickname is a form of affection used by wives to refer to their husbands.
  • Tordue (TORH-DU) – Meaning “king” this Tiv nickname show just how much a wife regards her husband.

For Parents

In Nigerian culture, someone doesn’t have to be a biological parent to answer to a parent’s name. Older people, as a sign of respect, are also referred to in the same way as one would one’s parents.

  • Ada – This name is usually used to refer to the oldest female in an Igbo lineage.
  • Baaba (BA-A-BA) – A nickname used by the Fulani people of Northern Nigeria to refer to one’s father.
  • Baba (BA-BA) – This is a popular nickname for father and has Yoruba origins used in many parts of western Nigeria. Usually, the names are attached to the names of one’s child, for instance; Baba Tola (which means Tola’s father).
  • Baba Oko Mi (BA-BA-OKO-MI) – This is an affectionate nickname used among the Yoruba’s to refer to their father-in-law or the elders in their spouse’s family.
  • Baba Wa (BA-BA-WA) – A nickname among the Yoruba’s for an elderly man. It means “Our Father.”
  • Dau – The Egbema people of Ijaw Nigeria use this name to refer to fathers.
  • Di Okpara (DI-OK-PARA) – This is a name used to refer to the oldest male in an Igbo lineage.
  • Eka – An Efik name of endearment for mother.
  • Esiraado (ESI-RAA-DO) – A nickname for a parent-in-law in Fulfulde (Fulani). The plural form being Esiraabe.
  • Ete – An Efik name of endearment for father.
  • Ezinne (EZIN-NNE) – A nickname for a woman considered to be a good mother to her children among the Igbos of Eastern Nigeria.
  • Iya (E-YA) – This is a popular nickname for mother and has Yoruba origins used in many parts of western Nigeria. Usually, the names are attached to the names of one’s child, for instance; Iya Tola (which means Tola’s mother).
  • Iya Oko Mi (IYA-OKO-MI) – In Nigerian culture, your mother-in-law is often taken as your own mother and this is an affectionate nickname used among the Yoruba’s.
  • Iya Ile (EYA-LE) – An endearing nickname for the eldest wife in a Yoruba household.
  • Iya wa (EYA-WA) – A nickname among the Yoruba’s for an elderly woman in one’s family who might not be one’s mother but considered a mother to all.
  • Ngo – A Tiv name for mother.
  • Nna – Used among the Igbos to refer to a father, for instance, Nna m (means My father) and Nna Chike (which means Chike’s father).
  • Nna Di (NNA-DI) – An Igbo name of endearment for one’s Father-in-law.
  • Nne – An Igbo nickname for a mother, for example, Nne m (means My Mother) and Nne Dozie (which means Dozie’s mother).
  • Ogo Nwanyi (OGO-NWAN-YI) – An Igbo name of endearment for one’s Mother-in-law.
  • Papa – A popular term used to refer to a father.
  • Pale (PAL-HARE) – A slang used for Dad.
  • Male (MAL-HARE)– A slang used for Mom.
  • Suruka (SU-RU-KA) – The Hausa nickname for mother-in-law.
  • Suruki (SU-RU-KI) – The Hausa nickname for father-in-law.
  • Tere – A Tiv name for father.
  • Terem Kem (TERE-M-KEM) – A Tiv name for father-in-law.
  • Uba – A nickname for father among the Hausa people of Northern Nigeria.
  • Wari Okosu Ere (WARI-OKO-SU-ERE) – This name used to refer to the oldest female in a lineage among the Egbema people of Ijaw Nigeria.
  • Wari Okosu Wei (WARI-OKO-SU-WEI) – A name used to refer to the oldest male in a lineage among the Egbema people of Ijaw Nigeria.
  • Yin – The Egbema people of Ijaw Nigeria use this name to refer to mothers.
  • Yumma (YU-MMMA) – A nickname used by the Fulani people of Northern Nigeria to refer to one’s mother.

For Grandparents

Nigerians have separate names they use in referring to their grandparents. These nicknames vary depending on the tribe and language spoken. Here are a few Nigerian nicknames for grandparents:

  • Baba Agba (BA-BA-AG-BA) – A name for a Grandfather used among the Yoruba”s.
  • Eka Eka (EKA-EKA) – This is used by the Efik people to refer to Grandmother.
  • Ete Ete (ETE-ETE) – This Efik name is used to refer to Grandfather.
  • Iya Agba (E-YA-AG-BA) – A name for a Grandmother used among the Yoruba”s.
  • Kakan (KA-KA-N) – A name of endearment used to refer to one’s Grandfather amongst the Hausas of Northern Nigeria.
  • Kakanta (KA-KA-N-TA) – A name of endearment used to refer to one’s Grandmother amongst the Hausas of Northern Nigeria.
  • Mama – In some households, they find it easier to call Grandmothers mama.
  • Ngotamen (NGO-TA-MEN) – Used by the Tiv people to refer to Grandmother.
  • Nna Nna (NNA-NNA) – This name is fondly used to refer to one’s patriarchal Grandfather as a term of endearment among the Igbos of Eastern Nigeria.
  • Nna Nne (NNA-NNE) – This name is fondly used to refer to one’s matriarchal Grandfather as a term of endearment among the Igbos of Eastern Nigeria.
  • Nne Nna (NNE-NNA) – This name is fondly used to refer to one’s patriarchal Grandmother as a term of endearment among the Igbos of Eastern Nigeria.
  • Nne Nne (NNE-NNE) –This name is fondly used to refer to one’s patriarchal Grandfather as a term of endearment among the Igbos of Eastern Nigeria
  • Opu Dan (OP-U-DAN) – This name is used by the Egbema people of Ijaw Nigeria to refer to Grandfathers.
  • Opu Yin (OP-U-YIN) – This name is used by the Egbema people of Ijaw Nigeria to refer to Grandmothers.
  • Pati (PA-TI) – This Fulfude name is used by the Fulani people of northern Nigeria to refer to Grandfather.
  • Soro (SO-RO) – This Fulfude name is used by the Fulani people of northern Nigeria to refer to Grandfather.
  • Tertamen (TER-TAY-MEN) – Used by the Tiv people to refer to Grandfather.

For Places

Here are the terms and nicknames Nigerians use for places or location-related Nigerian nicknames:

  • Naija – The unofficial nickname for Nigeria. Omo Naija (Son of Nigeria), Naija Boy (Nigerian Kid), etc means are derived from this term.
  • IB – Nickname for Ibadan; largest city in Nigeria.
  • LAG – Nickname for Lagos state; the commercial capital of Nigeria.
  • Las Gidi –Nickname for Lagos state.
  • Gidi –Also, a nickname for Lagos state.
  • ABK –Popular nickname used for Abeokuta, a city in Ogun state.
  • ABJ –The unofficial nickname of the capital city of Nigeria.
  • KD – Short form of Kaduna state.
  • PH –Common term used to describe Port Harcourt city.
  • Lagosian – A nickname used for people who are from Lagos state or someone who resides in Lagos.
  • Yankee – USA
  • Jand – UK/ anywhere outside Africa.
  • Southy – South Africa
  • Chinko – Chinese/Asian.

Common Items

Here are the most popular terms Nigerians use daily:

  • Tissue – Toilet Paper.
  • Coke – Soda, Coca Cola.
  • Minerals – Soda.
  • Motor – A vehicle.
  • Plane – Aircraft.
  • Mechanic – An Auto technician that fixes mechanical faults in vehicles.
  • Panel Beater – An Auto technician that fixes auto body damage and dents in vehicles.
  • Rewire – An Auto technician that fixes electrical damage in cars.
  • Hotel – A hotel.
  • Toilet – Restroom.
  • Lift – Elevator. (from the English – Americans never use this term)
  • Cabu Cabu – Rarely used, it means Taxi. Taxi has become a more popular term.
  • Sweet – Candy.
  • Milo/Bournvita – Cocoa Tea. Some people use it as a term for tea.
  • Fridge – Refrigerator
  • Maggi – Bouillon cube
  • Indomie – Noodles
  • Supermarket – Grocery store
  • Biro – Pen.
  • Eatery – Restaurant.
  • Olopa – Yoruba term for the police.
  • Popo – Slang for Police
  • Gateman – Security Personnel.
  • Businessman – Entrepreneur/trader.
  • Chemist – Pharmacy/Pharmacist.
  • AC – Air conditioner
  • Yellow Fever – Traffic Police
  • Yahoo – Refers to internet fraud but you’d find it being used for young people with questionable sources of income.
  • Okada – Commercial motorcycle
  • Keke – Bicycle, tricycle.
  • Danfo – Commercial Bus.
  • BRT – Mass transit buses.

More …

If you encounter more Nigerian terms or phrases that you find being used by Nigerian Scammers in their regular conversation please tell us in a comment below!

NOTE: we have not included scammer slang – terms they use among themselves when talking about scams or their victims. Those would be too obvious and are better ignored.

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After the trauma of being scammed, you need to take steps to recover and move on. This may be an alternative to counseling in the short term, but we still encourage you to seek out professional help & support. Throughout this SCARS Steps Program, we speak about issues, challenges, defects, or problems that a victim may have in a generalized way.

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SCARS SLATE BOOK - A Guide For Families & Friends Of Scam Victims

SCARS SLATE BOOK – Let Us Explain What Happened!

A Guide For Families & Friends Of Scam Victims

HOW TO HELP ROMANCE SCAM VICTIMS FOR FAMILIES & FRIENDS OF SCAM VICTIMS

This SCARS Publishing book represents a complete guide to help the families and friends understand how these scams work and how to help the victim.

The SCARS Slate Book should be purchased by family and friends to better understand what happened to the victim and the traumatic impact on them. But it can also be shared by the victim so that they do not have to explain to family and friends about the scam. This publication is to help others to help Scam Victims to make it through this traumatic experience and recover.

Each person is different and it is important to understand how relationship scamsRelationship Scam A Relationship Scam is a one-to-one criminal act that involves a trust relationship and uses deception & manipulation to get a victim to give to the criminal something of value, such as money! Click here to learn more: What Is A Relationship Scam? work and why people are vulnerable; to being scammed, how they were lured in, then groomed and manipulated. This understanding is essential in helping them through the process of ending the scam and then on to recovery. The SCARS Slate Book will provide the information necessary to help support a victim through this process.

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SCARS RED BOOK - Your Personal Scam Evidence & Crime Record Organizer

SCARS RED BOOK
Your Personal Scam Evidence & Crime Record Organizer

ORGANIZE YOUR INFORMATION TO MAKE THE REPORTING PROCESS SIMPLE!

Helps you get and stay organized. This publication is to help Scam Victims organize their crime information. Complete this information before reporting to the police then bring this book with you

Before or after reporting to the police the RED BOOK gives you a dedicated tool to record all the essential facts of this crime. The Victim, the Scammers, the Money, and your Police interactions. Everything that really matters can be easily recorded for your immediate use and for the future!

As we have seen, money recovery/repayment programs can become available years after the scam ends and you need to keep all the details of this crime in case it is needed. We have also seen scammers being extradited to the U.S. and other countries, this will help in the event you testify or give statements, Additionally, this helps you have your information ready to qualify for victims’ benefits, compensation, or aid.

The Official SCARS RED BOOK is your way of recording all the important facts of this crime so that you do not lose essential information, Complete the RED BOOK then put it away with the confidence that you will have it if or when it is needed.

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SCARS BLUE BOOK - Survivor's Recovery Journal
SCARS LIME BOOK - Wisdom & Motivation for Scam Victims
SCARS CHERRY BOOK - A Guide To Understanding Your Fear
SCARS WORKBOOK - 8 Steps To Improvement
SCARS WORKBOOK - Understanding Self-Blame, Guilt, and Shame
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Always Report All Scams – Anywhere In The World To:

U.S. FTCFTC The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) is an independent agency of the United States government whose principal mission is the enforcement of civil (non-criminal) U.S. antitrust law and the promotion of consumer protection. The FTC can also act as a clearinghouse for criminal reports sent to other agencies for investigation and prosecution. To learn more visit www.FTC.gov or to report fraud visit ReportFraud.FTC.gov at https://reportfraud.ftc.gov/#/?orgcode=SCARS and SCARS at www.Anyscams.com