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Información de SCARS™ : Cuánto Tiempo Se Tarda En Recuperarse Del Trauma De Ser Estafado
Uno de nuestros visitantes nos hizo una pregunta importante. Es una pregunta sobre cuánto tiempo se tarda en recuperarse del trauma de ser estafado.
Lo primero que debes recordar es esto. La mayoría de las personas NO se recuperarán de su trauma.
Hay tres tipos básicos de víctimas: aquellos en negación; los que están llenos de ira, de cólera y de odio; Y luego están los realistas.
Los que están en negación no pueden aceptar completamente lo que se hizo. Porque no pueden aceptarlo, no pueden perdonarse a sí mismos. Ocultan la estafa como si fuera un pequeño secreto sucio. Nunca intentan trabajar a través de él.
Aquellos que están llenos de ira o rabia nunca se recuperan realmente, porque han dejado que su ira tome el control de sus vidas.
Sólo los realistas pueden recuperarse por completo. Porque pueden aceptar que esto sucedió, y aunque pueden estar enojados consigo mismos y con el estafador, están dispuestos a dejar ir la ira. Ellos quieren estar sobre eso. Se unirán a un grupo de apoyo real o buscarán ayuda profesional para superar el trauma emocional.
Nadie volverá a ser el mismo después de este tipo de experiencia, y todos tienen una experiencia ligeramente diferente debido a quiénes son, pero puedes volver a conectarte contigo mismo y con tu vida. De esta manera, todos ustedes son como soldados que regresan a casa de la guerra. Los realistas son los que saben que no hay respuestas fáciles: se necesita mucho trabajo y tiempo.
En nuestra experiencia de ayudar a miles a recuperarse. Se tarda entre 18 y 24 meses en recuperarse emocionalmente, al menos hasta el punto en que puede decir que no está pensando en los estafadores todos los días. Pero toma en promedio alrededor de 4 años recuperarse financieramente, y esos tienen suerte porque algunos nunca lo hacen.
Nuestros grupos de apoyo están orientados a los realistas que quieren recuperarse. La buena noticia es que casi todos los realistas lo han logrado.
Es para los realistas, es decir, ustedes que están leyendo esto, que existe toda nuestra organización.
¡Le deseamos todo lo mejor!
Equipo SCARS™
Una División SCARS™
Miami Florida EE.UU.
TAGS: Recuperarse, Trauma, Estafado, Estafa, Victima, Recuperarán,
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Cuéntanos tus experiencias con estafadores románticos en nuestro Foro de discusión de estafas en Facebook »
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¿Cómo reportar a los estafadores?
Es esencial que las autoridades policiales conozcan las estafas y los estafadores, aunque no hay nada (en la mayoría de los casos) que puedan hacer.
- Policía local: pídales que lleven un informe policial “informativo”; diga que lo necesita para su seguro
- Su Policía Nacional o FBI (www.IC3.gov »)
- La Red de Ddatos Cibernéticos SCARS|CDN™ – Red Mundial de Reportes AQUI » o en www.Anyscam.com »
Esto ayuda a su gobierno a comprender el problema y permite que las autoridades policiales agreguen a los estafadores en las listas de vigilancia de todo el mundo.
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Visite nuestra NUEVA página principal de Facebook de SCARS para obtener más información sobre estafas y delitos en línea: www.facebook.com/Amigas.Contra.Estafas »
Para aprender más sobre la visita de SCARS www.AgainstScams.org »
Por favor, asegúrese de informar a todos los estafadores AQUI » o en www.Anyscam.com »
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A Note About Labeling!
We often use the term ‘scam victim’ in our articles, but this is a convenience to help those searching for information in search engines like Google. It is just a convenience and has no deeper meaning. If you have come through such an experience, YOU are a Survivor! It was not your fault. You are not alone! Axios!
A Question of Trust
At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.
Statement About Victim Blaming
Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.
These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.
Articles like these help victims and others understand these processes and how to help prevent them from being exploited again or to help them recover more easily by understanding their post-scam behaviors. Learn more about the Psychology of Scams at www.ScamPsychology.org
Psychology Disclaimer:
All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only
The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.
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