You Can Still Be Scammed Again!

(Last Updated On: August 10, 2022)

You Can Still Be Scammed Again!

Understanding That Change Is Needed To Be Really Safe

A SCARS Insight

You Say You Can’t Be Scammed Again?

Most Victims Can Be!

For decades, since 1991, we have been warning about scams of one nature or another, but what most scams have in common is Social Engineering!

For most of you who have been scammed you sware it will never happen again, right? Just being a victim of a scam is not enough to prevent it from happening again.

According to SCARS Analytics: the average number of times a victim will be scammed is 3.4 times!

Of course, many (most?) are one and done, but some are scammed a dozen or more times to create that average! We have known many who were scammed 20 to 30 times!

It Takes More Than Wishful Thinking, It Takes Change!

It takes more than wishful thinking to stop yourself from being scammed. After all, it was wishful thinking (magical thinking) that got you scammed in the first place.

At the heart of almost all scams is Social Engineering – using the way you are wired to defeat you – over and over again.

It Starts With Learning – Have You Been Learning Or Reacting?

We appreciate that many people have no clue how things really work on the web. Just like a teen has no clue how to safely drive a car and not kill themselves – UNTIL they learn.

The Tragedy Is That Most People Do Not Learn To Use The Internet Effectively & Safely

Nobody told you there were scammers, right?

You were ignorant of the real dangers. This was caused by a combination of impulsiveness, inattention, a lack of interest, and an unawareness of how dangerous it can be.

Consider how this applies to something as simple as unsubscribing to an email that you signed up for. Most people have no idea that this is all automated, and that even if we wanted to, you control your own subscriptions (this is required by law & regulations now). When you get an email there is an Unsubscribe link required by law. All it usually takes is to click it! Yet most people send emails demanding removal.

We mention this because this is also how you were scammed!
You probably didn’t see what was right in front of you.
Instead, you reacted impulsively.

This Is Also Why MOST Victims Are Scammed Again!

For example, there is a typical Facebook social engineering scam that says people are getting friend requests from you. Except if you really look, it is just a viral scam being shared forever by people not bothering to check what it actually means.

New Facebook scam is a hoax - which means it is a scam!

New Facebook scam is a hoax – which means it is a scam!

This Is A Perfect Example Of How You Are Still Being Manipulated

In this case, a bogus warning is claiming a duplicate friend request was received. The message also asks users to send this message to all of their friends.

You should never automatically send or SHARE these kinds of viral messages – ever!

If one of your friends had their profile CLONED and you see it, then the first thing is to report it to Facebook (or Instagram, whichever the case) as someone impersonating your friend. Then notify your friends and contacts. But if it is just some message or post that you saw, then why would you forward it along?

Cloning

Cloning is when a person’s profile is copied, as happens all the time in romance scams. Scammers clone real people’s profiles to impersonate them. Check out this post to learn what you need to know about profile cloning scams and how to protect yourself from them – click here »

What Is The Point?

The point to this is that scam victims are scammed again and again. Every time they respond to a social engineer hoax or fake message you are falling into another scam.

The message above is just one example of a hoax that has gone viral, nothing more than junk chain mail.

Except it is not.

IT IS A CAREFULLY CREATED SOCIAL ENGINEERING SCAM!

It is not asking for money, but it is taking your time and causing you to react. It doesn’t seem dangerous, but the next one could very well be very dangerous, delivering malware.

It is also doing something more – it is identifying YOU as someone that can be scammed. When posts are shared from dangerous sources the people who posted them can many times see who shared them. Now they know about you!

“I know people have actually been a victim of it, but this latest one just seems especially pointless, just getting people to copy and paste a message and spam it out to all their contacts,” said one user. Even Homeland Security says if you see it just ignore it. Sending it to friends only makes it worse.

The Real Point We Are Making

But here is the real point, if you fell for this, you fell for yet another scam.

Scammers gear their weapons to take advantage of your weakness and vulnerabilities. And this kind of thing will trip you up time after time until you stop reacting impulsively and start developing habits (behaviors) that keep you safe.

Thinking you can never be scammed again is nothing but a belief that will not save you from future scams. Only changing your behavior will save you!

More Nonsense

Here is another urban legend spreading that accepting a friend request gives a hacker access to your account!

According To SNOPES.com – it is totally bogus, but you don’t know because you never learned to use your online tools properly, and instead, you are still reacting.

The scam / hoax is:

Social Media Hacker Warning: Accepting a Facebook friend request from a stranger will provide hackers with access to your computer and online accounts.

Wrong, it does not present any such risk!

The examples are multiple variants of a long-running hoax, one which warns the readers not to allow contact with a particular person or group because dire consequences will result. The basic form of these hoax warnings are typically drawn from the following template:

Do not {read / open / respond to / join} an {e-mail / text message / friend request / } sent by {real name / e-mail address / screen name}!
If you do, {you / your computer / your Facebook account / everyone on your contact list / your children} will be in danger of falling victim to a {serial killer / computer virus / hacker / predator}.

Really?

These are but two of the countless socially engineering scams (and that IS the right word) that are constantly running around out there on social media.

Viral Messages May Be Scammer Lures

Have you ever considered that some of them may actually be lures to find more victims?

Meaning that they are like land mines, they wait for people to fall for them, and then they find you by seeing who they caught! Once they identify a target then they spring other scams on you until one of the hooks takes hold!

What Are We Trying To Say?

We are telling you that all of your wishful thinking and protestations about how you are never going to be scammed again are worth nothing UNLESS you back it up with actions.

What Actions?

  • Constant learning about how the Internet / Facebook / and Apps work
  • Restraint instead of Reaction – take time to examine what you see – wait before responding and ask a friend to be sure
  • Thought – think it through – just assume everything is questionable until you make sure and verify
  • Trust no one – even though this can slow your recovery as a scam victim, it is safer, and right now safety matters most
  • Report what you find so others can help with spreading the word – if you lost money again, report it to law enforcement

In Conclusion

As the United States Department of Homeland Security suggests: STOP | THINK | CONNECT – meaning that when you see something your first instinct is to react; but instead stop, think about it, then if you are sure it is safe to connect!

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