(Last Updated On: March 24, 2022)

Really Understanding Your AngerAnger Anger, also known as wrath or rage, is an intense emotional state involving a strong uncomfortable and non-cooperative response to a perceived provocation, trigger, hurt or threat. About one-third of scam victims become trapped in anger for extended periods of time following a scam. A person experiencing anger will often experience physical effects, such as increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, and increased levels of adrenaline and noradrenaline. Some view anger as an emotion that triggers a part of the fight or flight response. Anger becomes the predominant feeling behaviorally, cognitively, and physiologically. Anger can have many physical and mental consequences. While most of those who experience anger explain its arousal as a result of "what has happened to them", psychologists point out that an angry person can very well be mistaken because anger causes a loss in self-monitoring capacity and objective observability.!

ScamScam A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime -  is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. Victim Anger Works Against Recovery

A Full Third Of Scam Victims Lose Themselves To Anger After The Discovery

Anger is a normal part of the grief cycle but it easily gains control and prevents a victim’s ability to move forward

How Anger Affects Your Brain and Body

Anger Can Be A Challenging Emotion To Work Through

Sometimes our anger can be frightening. Or, maybe we consider it inappropriate to even feel this way at all. Not only that, when anger is misdirected, it often leads to poor choices, damaged relationships, and even violence.

We see this in about one-third (1/3) of scam victims. It leads to vigilantism and many other bad, sometimes delusional choices. It can cause rejection of assistance from professionals, and gravitation towards other angry individuals. It can blockBlock Blocking is a technical action usually on social media or messaging platforms that restricts or bans another profile from seeing or communicating with your profile. To block someone on social media, you can usually go to their profile and select it from a list of options - often labeled or identified with three dots ••• emotional recovery and re-integration with family and friends after the discovery of a scam, especially when shameShame Shame is an unpleasant self-conscious emotion typically associated with a negative evaluation of the self; withdrawal motivations; and feelings of distress, exposure, mistrust, powerlessness, and worthlessness. is a significant component.

But What’s Really Going On In The Brain And Body When Anger Is Triggered?

HERE IS A WAY TO VISUALIZE THIS:

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In The Heat Of Anger, We Often Don’t Use Our Best Judgment

We may say and do things we later regret or lose track of what we’re arguing about. Anger affects all of our actions and decision making,

Why Is That?

It has to do with CORTISOL.

Anger can spark an overload of cortisol in the brain, and this can lead to numerous problems.

Where Does The Cortisol Come From In The First Place?

WHEN THERE’S TOO MUCH CORTISOL IN THE BRAIN …

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Anger Is An Important And Sometimes Necessary Emotion

But All Too Often, Anger Can Quickly Escalate And Become Destructive Once It’s Been Triggered

Uncontrollable anger can often create problems in relationships both at home and in the workplace. But beyond that, it can have devastating physical consequences. It also leads to terrible decision-making and potentially delusional behaviorBehavior   Behavior / Behavioral Actions Otherwise known as habits, behavior or behavioral actions are strategies to help prevent online exploitation that target behavior, such as social engineering of victims. Changing your behavior is the ONLY effective means to reduce or prevent scams..

How And Where Does Anger Impact The Body?

HOW ANGER AFFECTS YOUR BRAIN AND BODY

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A Practical Skill for Defusing Anger

When Tempers Flare And RageRage Anger, also known as wrath or rage, is an intense emotional state involving a strong uncomfortable and non-cooperative response to a perceived provocation, trigger, hurt or threat. About one-third of scam victims become trapped in anger for extended periods of time following a scam. A person experiencing anger will often experience physical effects, such as increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, and increased levels of adrenaline and noradrenaline. Some view anger as an emotion that triggers a part of the fight or flight response. Anger becomes the predominant feeling behaviorally, cognitively, and physiologically. Anger can have many physical and mental consequences. While most of those who experience anger explain its arousal as a result of "what has happened to them", psychologists point out that an angry person can very well be mistaken because anger causes a loss in self-monitoring capacity and objective observability. Ensues, Your Relationships Suffer As Does Your Ability To Follow The Path Of Recovery!

The stress levels skyrocket, and reactivity simply takes over.

So how can people shift out of anger once the fuse is lit?

In the video below, Marsha Linehan, Ph.D. will share a practical skill to help defuse anger before it escalates beyond control. The video is created for psychologists but can be useful for you to practice yourself.

Take a look – it’s about 2 ½ minutes.

5 Ways to Diffuse Your Anger By Dr. Tracey Marks

To better understand how to stop before you lose control, let’s look at the cycle of anger.

First You Have A Triggering Event

This would be something like feeling disrespected or used or having someone cut you off in traffic. In the case of scam victims, it is just thinking of or being reminded of your scam. This is followed by negative thoughts. These are automatic thoughts that pop into your mind right after the triggering event. Then you have an emotional response to your thought, even if your thought isn’t rational.

Physical Symptoms

The next step in the cycle is the physical symptoms. Like a racing heart, or sweaty palms, or even tense muscles and jaw clenching. Then you have the behavioral response of yelling, cursing and arguing, or maybe even crying.

So with this cycle, you have things going on in your head that lead to behaviors. There are different places in this cycle you can change to address anger. This video is focused on the behavioral response.

Diffusing Techniques

Technique 1

Practice taking 3 deep breaths before you respond. This gives you the chance to resist lashing out automatically. Many times the anger response is impulsive and if you had been able to wait even 5 seconds, you may have had the control to hold back on saying something hurtful that you can’t take back.

Technique 2

Develop canned responses to controversial topics. If you’re always around people who like getting into political discussions and their views are opposite of yours, you want to already know what to say to shut the conversation down or make it clear that you have no comment. Prepare a couple of statements you can use for any topic or situation that you know triggersTRIGGERS A trigger is a stimulus that sets off a memory of a trauma or a specific portion of a traumatic experience. you. If someone repeatedly tries to engage you in the conversation or activity that you’re avoiding, use the broken record technique where you give the same response. You don’t need to craft another response, so they get it this time. Saying the same thing in the same tone sends a stronger message that you mean what you said.

Technique 3

Develop statements that de-escalate the situation before you get too angry. These would be statements like I need to take a break I need a time out – we can talk later Or the classic, maybe we need to agree to disagree on this

These are canned statements similar to the no comment statements, but the purpose of these statements is to stop a conflict that you have already participated in but you recognize it’s getting too heated for you and you’re about to blow. This is where it is helpful to know what your physical symptoms are when you start to get angry or rageful. This is step 4 in the cycle of anger. Do you start sweating? Does your chest get warm? Knowing this about yourself can help you recognize when you are going down the path to rage and know when to use this technique.

Technique 4

Stop and observe your anger. Examine it as if you’re another person in the room looking at you. What do you look like? Do you appear intensely angry because you’re throwing things? Or do you seem snippy and hot-headed? Are you talking loudly or brooding in your head? By disengaging from your anger and actually observing it in a mindful way, you take the energy out of it. This gives you time to avoid lashing out.

Technique 5

Use diversions. Let’s say you remove yourself from the situation, by using the third technique of shutting things down with an I need a time out statement. Do something to distract yourself like listening to music, taking a brief walk, or even coloring. Coloring complex drawings is a popular stress-reduction technique.

Anger Is Your Greatest Enemy!

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