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SCARS™ Commentary: Helping Others
How Can You Really Help Others?
When people are new to all of this they always say they want to stop it and help others.
However, before you can help others you have to help yourself. You have to stabilize and go down your own path of recovery first.
The best way to help is to become a volunteer. Start by helping those in your own group.
Bring things to the table that you think may help:
- Share your own experiences and how you coped with it
- Realize that there is a lot to learn
- Participate in the group and comment for the benefit of everyone
- After you pass the point of stability months after the scam ended – let us know and we will help you have a more public voice – we will even create an anti-scam page for you that complies with SCARS Code of Conduct – this lets you help more by your example
- Help us by being a volunteer or a mentor to other victims in our support groups
- Help us edit our SCARS pages
- Write a book – we have many successful authors in our sphere who can help
- Help rescue victims in denial
- Be a local advocate in your town by speaking with the local crime victims advocates about helping scam victims – this includes going back to the police as a civic-minded citizen and explaining it all to their management – sharing our RomanceScamsNow.com website as their resource
- Help support SCARS advocacy initiatives and campaigns
In short, helping others, just like helping yourself comes in many different forms. Finding what works for you is the key.
There Is So Much That Needs To Be Done That Any Help Matters!
Let us know if you want to be a survivor that can help others!
SCARS™ Team
A SCARS Division
Miami Florida U.S.A.
TAGS: Helping Yourself, Helping Others, Helping Victims, Assisting Victims, Supporting, Support Groups, Volunteering, Senior Volunteer, SCARS Volunteers,
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FAQ: How Do You Properly Report Scammers?
It is essential that law enforcement knows about scams & scammers, even though there is nothing (in most cases) that they can do.
Always report scams involving money lost or where you received money to:
- Local Police – ask them to take an “informational” police report – say you need it for your insurance
- Your National Police or FBI (www.IC3.gov »)
- The SCARS|CDN™ Cybercriminal Data Network – Worldwide Reporting Network HERE » or on www.Anyscam.com »
This helps your government understand the problem, and allows law enforcement to add scammers on watch lists worldwide.
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Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.
These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.
Articles like these help victims and others understand these processes and how to help prevent them from being exploited again or to help them recover more easily by understanding their post-scam behaviors. Learn more about the Psychology of Scams at www.ScamPsychology.org
Psychology Disclaimer:
All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only
The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.
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