SCARS Institute’s Encyclopedia of Scams™ Published Continuously for 25 Years
The Scam Victim’s Mantra
In Order To Recover From Your Scam You Must Change That Part Of You That Allowed It In The First Place!
We have prepared a mantra for you that you can repeat to yourself when you feel your emotions boiling to the surface.
I Am Imperfect
I Am Human
I Was Foolish And It Cost Me
I Wanted To Believe But Was Lied To
I Know Better Now
I Am Learning More And More
Every Day I Am Stronger
Every Day I Am Smarter
Every Day I Am Safer
Every Day I Take One More Step Into My Future
I Will Never Become A Victim Again
Quoth The Raven
Nevermore!
Mantras help you quiet your mind and give you focus. Repeating this one will help you if you are sincere.
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Table of Contents
- I Am Imperfect
- I Am Human
- I Was Foolish And It Cost Me
- I Wanted To Believe But Was Lied To
- I Know Better Now
- I Am Learning More And More
- Every Day I Am Stronger
- Every Day I Am Smarter
- Every Day I Am Safer
- Every Day I Take One More Step Into My Future
- I Will Never Become A Victim Again
- Quoth The Raven
- Nevermore!
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Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.
These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.
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The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.
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Very welcome, all the best to you!
When I read what happened to others I got off relatively cheep with only loosing $20,000 but it is the emotional toll it took that I am still struggling with. I have said lonely leads to stupid. I fell so deeply in love with Becca Kom , and to find out that I was looking at photographs of Dani Daniles was devastating to me. The money means nothing, but the emotional toll is still painful and I am not over it yet, although it happened in 2017 it is like it happened yesterday.
Yes, it is very hard. Technically you are probably experiencing a form of PTSD. It is common for scam victims to suffer from it after an intense scam. What makes it harder is that men do not respond well to support groups. We have tried many times of the years, but guys tend to prefer to tough it out on their own – a tragic mistake because it extends the recovery time by years. The best approach is to seek out local counseling, talking it out is the best solution for dulling the pain and helping yourself move forward.
Thank you I have gotten a therapist to help but it is still difficult to look at Dani Daniles knowing what she is and what she was supposed to be to me.
Indeed. The best solution for you is to avoid any contact with strangers online for a year or so until your trauma is sufficiently reduced that you can confront them again.