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The Scam Victim’s Mantra
In Order To Recover From Your Scam You Must Change That Part Of You That Allowed It In The First Place!
We have prepared a mantra for you that you can repeat to yourself when you feel your emotions boiling to the surface.
I Am Imperfect
I Am Human
I Was Foolish And It Cost Me
I Wanted To Believe But Was Lied To
I Know Better Now
I Am Learning More And More
Every Day I Am Stronger
Every Day I Am Smarter
Every Day I Am Safer
Every Day I Take One More Step Into My Future
I Will Never Become A Victim Again
Quoth The Raven
Nevermore!
Mantras help you quiet your mind and give you focus. Repeating this one will help you if you are sincere.
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We wish you all the best of luck in your future.
Peace be with you!
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Thank You
Very welcome, all the best to you!
When I read what happened to others I got off relatively cheep with only loosing $20,000 but it is the emotional toll it took that I am still struggling with. I have said lonely leads to stupid. I fell so deeply in love with Becca Kom , and to find out that I was looking at photographs of Dani Daniles was devastating to me. The money means nothing, but the emotional toll is still painful and I am not over it yet, although it happened in 2017 it is like it happened yesterday.
Yes, it is very hard. Technically you are probably experiencing a form of PTSD. It is common for scam victims to suffer from it after an intense scam. What makes it harder is that men do not respond well to support groups. We have tried many times of the years, but guys tend to prefer to tough it out on their own – a tragic mistake because it extends the recovery time by years. The best approach is to seek out local counseling, talking it out is the best solution for dulling the pain and helping yourself move forward.
Thank you I have gotten a therapist to help but it is still difficult to look at Dani Daniles knowing what she is and what she was supposed to be to me.
Indeed. The best solution for you is to avoid any contact with strangers online for a year or so until your trauma is sufficiently reduced that you can confront them again.