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SCARSSCARS SCARS - Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc. A government registered crime victims' assistance & crime prevention nonprofit organization based in Miami, Florida, U.S.A. SCARS supports the victims of scams worldwide and through its partners in more than 60 countries around the world. Incorporated in 2015, its team has 30 years of continuous experience educating and supporting scam victims. Visit www.AgainstScams.org to learn more about SCARS.™ Psychology of ScamsPsychology Of Scams Psychology Of Scams is the study of the psychological or emotional effects of scams or financial fraud on victims of these crimes. It helps victims to better understand the impact of scams on them personally or on others. To find the SCARS articles on the Psychology of Scams, use the search option to enter the term and find them.: The Face In The Photo Is NOT Responsible
Many Times After A ScamScam A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost., Victims Are Unable To Accept That The Person In The Photo Is Not The Real ScammerScammer A Scammer or Fraudster is someone that engages in deception to obtain money or achieve another objective. They are criminals that attempt to deceive a victim into sending more or performing some other activity that benefits the scammer.!
Today we received a complaint from a romance scam victim who blamed a person who had his photos stolen by scammers. Her argument was that HE HAD A RESPONSIBILITY to explain himself to those who lost money. She even believes he was the real scammer, or at least working with the scammers – giving out his photos for a piece of the winnings!
What nonsense is this?
The person in the photo is every bit as much of a victim as the person that sent money to a scammer. However, some victims let their irrational angerAnger Anger, also known as wrath or rage, is an intense emotional state involving a strong uncomfortable and non-cooperative response to a perceived provocation, trigger, hurt or threat. About one-third of scam victims become trapped in anger for extended periods of time following a scam. A person experiencing anger will often experience physical effects, such as increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, and increased levels of adrenaline and noradrenaline. Some view anger as an emotion that triggers a part of the fight or flight response. Anger becomes the predominant feeling behaviorally, cognitively, and physiologically. Anger can have many physical and mental consequences. While most of those who experience anger explain its arousal as a result of "what has happened to them", psychologists point out that an angry person can very well be mistaken because anger causes a loss in self-monitoring capacity and objective observability. completely blockBlock Blocking is a technical action usually on social media or messaging platforms that restricts or bans another profile from seeing or communicating with your profile. To block someone on social media, you can usually go to their profile and select it from a list of options - often labeled or identified with three dots ••• their common sense.
This is such a case.
We are sharing this, not to blameBlame Blame or Blaming is the act of censuring, holding responsible, making negative statements about an individual or group that their action or actions are socially or morally irresponsible, the opposite of praise. When someone is morally responsible for doing something wrong, their action is blameworthy. By contrast, when someone is morally responsible for doing something right, we may say that his or her action is praiseworthy. Blame imparts responsibility for an action or act, as in that they made a choice to perform that act or action. this victim, but to illustrate the flawed decision making that happens to some victims after a scam. While this victim appears unable to address the real situation, we hope this will help others correct their thinking as it applies to those who had their identity stolen and were impersonated. They are victims too!
Here Is A Portion Of The Chat Transcript:
FROM THE VICTIM: Ive had so many people contact me through the identity of Dr steve Gregory jones for five years now and they won’t leave me alone every day of my life
FROM THE VICTIM: Ive even been to the police about this situation myself but they haven’t done anything about this situation im in now
- WE ADVISED HER TO CHANGE HER PRIVACY SETTINGS SO SHE WOULD NOT BE CONTACTED BY SCAMMERS
SHE REPLIED: Thank you but I really think the real person himself Dr Steve Gregory jones should face the people who have been hurt and lost their money over this situation
- BY “FACE” SHE MEANS BE LEGALLY RESPONSIBLE
- OUR REPLY: Why is that? How is he responsible for what scammers do with his photo? That is like saying a real manufacturer is responsible for what happens to someone who buys a “knock-off” product!
HER NEXT REPLY: He has the responsibility to face the people who has lost all there life saving money and one person who lost her husband over this he end up killing himself over this situation.
- IT WAS AT THIS POINT that we advised her that she was defaming a real person who was also a victim, and that we would be unable to help her further.
This person firmly believes that the person in the photo is the real scammer.
Over the last few days, we have published articles about victims living in denialDenial Denial is a refusal or unwillingness to accept something or to accept reality. Refusal to admit the truth or reality of something, refusal to acknowledge something unpleasant; And as a term of Psychology: denial is a defense mechanism in which confrontation with a personal problem or with reality is avoided by denying the existence of the problem or reality.. This is another form of denialDenial Denial is a refusal or unwillingness to accept something or to accept reality. Refusal to admit the truth or reality of something, refusal to acknowledge something unpleasant; And as a term of Psychology: denial is a defense mechanism in which confrontation with a personal problem or with reality is avoided by denying the existence of the problem or reality. – the delusion that the face in the photo is responsible – that it was that person that harmed them, when in fact it was not.
This is a dangerous form of obsessive delusion that can lead to more serious mental illnessMental Illness Mental illness, also called mental health disorders, refers to a wide range of mental health conditions — disorders that affect your mood, thinking, and behavior. Examples of mental illness include depression, anxiety disorders, schizophrenia, eating disorders, and addictive behaviors.. We strongly recommend that people in this state seek competent psychological professionals to help them.
Sadly we cannot help such people since we do not provide mental healthMental health Mental health, defined by the World Health Organization (WHO), is "a state of well-being in which the individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to his or her community". According to WHO, mental health includes "subjective well-being, perceived self-efficacy, autonomy, competence, intergenerational dependence, and self-actualization of one's intellectual and emotional potential, among others". From the perspectives of positive psychology or of holism, mental health may include an individual's ability to enjoy life and to create a balance between life activities and efforts to achieve psychological resilience. Cultural differences, subjective assessments, and competing professional theories all affect how one defines "mental health". counselingCounseling Counseling is the professional guidance of the individual by utilizing psychological methods especially in collecting case history data, using various techniques of the personal interview, and testing interests and aptitudes. A mental health counselor (MHC), or counselor, is a person who works with individuals and groups to promote optimum mental and emotional health. Such persons may help individuals deal with issues associated with addiction and substance abuse; family, parenting, and marital problems; stress management; self-esteem; and aging. They may also work with "Social Workers", "Psychiatrists", and "Psychologists". SCARS does not provide mental health counseling. services – and no one on Facebook does legally either.
However, it points out the fact that you must be very cautious about your mental state following a romance scam. The traumaTrauma Emotional and psychological trauma is the result of extraordinarily stressful events that shatter your sense of security, making you feel helpless in a dangerous world. Psychological trauma can leave you struggling with upsetting emotions, memories, and anxiety that won’t go away. It can also leave you feeling numb, disconnected, and unable to trust other people. Traumatic experiences often involve a threat to life or safety or other emotional shocks, but any situation that leaves you feeling overwhelmed and isolated can result in trauma, even if it doesn’t involve physical harm. It’s not the objective circumstances that determine whether an event is traumatic, but your subjective emotional experience of the event. The more frightened and helpless you feel, the more likely you are to be traumatized. Trauma requires treatment, either through counseling or therapy or through trauma-oriented support programs, such as those offered by SCARS. can be severe and depending on your personality can cause deep psychological issues for you that only professional help can resolve.
Always take a look at your own assumptions and see if they make sense before you move from one set of bad decisions to another.
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It is essential that law enforcement knows about scamsScams A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. & scammers, even though there is nothing (in most cases) that they can do.
Always report scams involving money lost or where you received money to:
- Local Police – ask them to take an “informational” police report – say you need it for your insurance
- Your National Police or FBIFBI FBI - Federal Bureau of Investigation The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) is the domestic intelligence and security service of the United States and its principal federal law enforcement agency. Operating under the jurisdiction of the United States Department of Justice, the FBI is also a member of the U.S. Intelligence Community and reports to both the Attorney General and the Director of National Intelligence. A leading U.S. counter-terrorism, counterintelligence, and criminal investigative organization, the FBI has jurisdiction over violations of more than 200 categories of federal crimes, including financial fraud. (www.IC3.gov »)
- The SCARS|CDN™ Cybercriminal Data Network – Worldwide Reporting Network HERE » or on www.Anyscam.com »
This helps your government understand the problem, and allows law enforcement to add scammers on watch lists worldwide.
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Not all scamsScams A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. are the same. I was scammed by the person in the photo because i video chatted with this person. Her pictures all of them were never found anywhere on the internet when sending through 3 reverse image sites. It is a correct fact that victims do open their wallets to send money but its not always a 60 year old woman being scammed by a 30 year old soldier or person posing as one. Im in my 40s and was scammed by a woman approaching 30 we talked for nearly a year on the phone every single day. I thought this person loved me so i helped her get her career off the ground so we could pursue a life together. I actually gave half of the money to her out of love from my heart and to help her break free from depression this was an elaborate scheme setup to take months to achieve their goal. She had conference calls which i didnt quite understand at the time. I do agree and ask that other victims dont harrass the ppl in the photos but not all cases are the same and mine is exclusively different from any others ive read about because it happened from our own country, georgia to be exact. How i know this is because in the mess of it all, i was under the impression that money i gave was used to get her contractors license as a cerner analyst and that she would be having others working for her under this contract. Well these others had w2s that were going to be sent to her supposedly and since she was said to be moving here with me, she used my address to receive letters which i thought were legitimate. These letters were sent to an address in Georgia which was determimed to be a place of residence and not a medical facility as she had mentioned. The reason i had to send the letters was because her first contract that was up for her to bid on she lost and i was to send these letters to the company that had won the contract. After a second set of letters arrived having the same names as some of the first batch i realized that she was attempting to defraud our government by collecting unemployment funds using my address. Then i find out im on a govt watch list. I took out a loan to try and help her raise enough money to land her first contract and this was the money she agreed she would pay me back. So i paid for her license and for a plane ticket without wanting the money returned but took out a loan to help her kickstart her career with idea she would pay me the loan amount in full within 2 months. So i would appreciate it if others including victims who had their identity used in a scamScam A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost., not assume all sxams are the same and not something others should take lightly. When a person has no clue what any victims entire story is and how they got to the point of sending money. They shouldnt assume that someone just opened their wallet for a person theyve only seen in a picture. Also, some ppl are even emotionally attached because they were sharing in relations over the phone which cannot be discussed on a comment on this website. But some victims were led to believe that there is a real connection when watching a movie together with their scammerScammer A Scammer or Fraudster is someone that engages in deception to obtain money or achieve another objective. They are criminals that attempt to deceive a victim into sending more or performing some other activity that benefits the scammer. while on the phone together also and talking together for hours some days. When a man believes that a woman is his woman he opens his wallet to take good care of her and i didnt fall in love with a person in a picture and ive talked to my scammer on video chat so validations were made to confirm that the scammer was in fact a real life person. The victims both scammed and identities stolen are victims and should be handled carefully without assumptions to each victims individual case. I pray for anyone that has had to face an incident and tell them to remain strong life will get better. Money comes and goes throughout our entire lives. Im broke and work just to try to survive now with limited amount of food and necessities. Ppl are resilient and dont be too ashamed to ask for help its out there and thats what its there for. Find your passions again and pursue them to help you once again find that your better than you may be feeling at this moment. Because you are so much better than how you feel after getting scammed.
Many of what you say is correct. Not all scamsScams A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. are the same, and victims are of any age. You are also correct, in that a comment is not the place to discuss the issues that a victim has, that is why we provide professional managed support groupsSupport Groups In a support group, members provide each other with various types of help, usually nonprofessional and nonmaterial, for a particular shared, usually burdensome, characteristic, such as romance scams. Members with the same issues can come together for sharing coping strategies, to feel more empowered and for a sense of community. The help may take the form of providing and evaluating relevant information, relating personal experiences, listening to and accepting others' experiences, providing sympathetic understanding and establishing social networks. A support group may also work to inform the public or engage in advocacy. They can be supervised or not. SCARS support groups are moderated by the SCARS Team and or volunteers. for scamScam A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. victims. If you would like to contact us, you can reach us at support@againstscams.org
Estou muito contente com as publicações deste site. Gostaria de sugerir ou ter informações sobre algum artigo que nos mostrasse páginas exclusivas de fotos se scammers para consulta.As páginas do Facebook me pareceram confusas ou eu não sube consultar. Obrigado
Wonen and men the people you think you know in the pictures are has much a victim as yourself why would you send money to someone that you’ve never met you chose to send that money. So you have to take responsibility for it. I have a friend who’s in the military I found 16 profiles on him he was devastated because he had no idea how many women had been scammed using his ID I’m in engaged to a military man I also saw his face under another. Profile I mean come on you meet someone on social media within an hour of meeting them they love you your there Queen there going to come home and marry you say everything you want to hear but you choose to send them the money you know in the back of your mind something is off there not texting like Americans there falling in love with in minutes of speaking to you your 50 or 60 and some hot solider who’s in his 30s is coming home to you to start a relationship Really I’m not saying that there aren’t some hot 50 or 60 who aren’t hot.But to blameBlame Blame or Blaming is the act of censuring, holding responsible, making negative statements about an individual or group that their action or actions are socially or morally irresponsible, the opposite of praise. When someone is morally responsible for doing something wrong, their action is blameworthy. By contrast, when someone is morally responsible for doing something right, we may say that his or her action is praiseworthy. Blame imparts responsibility for an action or act, as in that they made a choice to perform that act or action. the people who you think your talking to is just stupid there as much a victim as you .So to end this I’m going to say you choose to open your wallets and bank accounts to people you have never met or spoken to on the phone you have to ask yourself why would you do that then you want to blame the person in the picture who is just as much a victim as you are so think before you send money To somebody you have never met .Use common sense.
Thank you Dainty!
When they try to “friend me” on FaceBook I run a GOOGLE image search of their photo first, then I post a “LADIES BEWARE” message outing the scammerScammer A Scammer or Fraudster is someone that engages in deception to obtain money or achieve another objective. They are criminals that attempt to deceive a victim into sending more or performing some other activity that benefits the scammer.. I post the photo and say from whom they have stolen the photo. I also contact the real person whenever possible to let them know their photo is being used to scamScam A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. women.
For me, they are easy to spot. I then report their profile to FB sometimes they blockBlock Blocking is a technical action usually on social media or messaging platforms that restricts or bans another profile from seeing or communicating with your profile. To block someone on social media, you can usually go to their profile and select it from a list of options - often labeled or identified with three dots ••• the account and other times they could care less!
If you are interested in reporting scammers on Facebook – this is the place to be: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RSN.Army/