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Psychology Of Scams: When Should A Scam Victim Feel Ashamed? – SCARS|RSN™

SCARS|RSN™ Psychology Of Scams: When Should A Scam Victim Feel Ashamed? No Scam Victim Should Ever Feel Shame, Yet Most Do! Part of it is the event, part is their failure to act against the scam! Most scam victims never even report the scam or the scammer, instead they living in a partial state of denial while their anger or depression takes control. You Should Feel No Shame At All! If you did these things you [...]

RSN™ Commentary: It Saddens Us To Have To Say This Bluntly

RSN™ Commentary: It Saddens Us To Have To Say This Bluntly Every Single Day People Complain To Us About Someone They Met Online But Don't Even Know! They lay out all the reasons why the person they are talking about is an obvious scammer. Yet they say they do not know if he or she is a scammer! They want us to prove to them they are not talking to a scammer when they really [...]

SCARS/RSN Family Intervention Letter

SCARS/RSN Family Intervention Letter A Tool To Help Family Members Of Victims In Denial To See The Truth We had been asked several times if we have something that family members could share with a victim in complete denial. We have our Family Intervention Guide and this has helped many, but some victims cling so tightly to their fantasy that they are truly willing to forsake all family and friends in favor of their imaginary [...]

The Face In The Photo Is NOT Responsible – SCARS|RSN™ Psychology of Scams

SCARS|RSN™ Psychology of Scams: The Face In The Photo Is NOT Responsible Many Times After A Scam, Victims Are Unable To Accept That The Person In The Photo Is Not The Real Scammer! Today we received a complaint from a romance scam victim who blamed a person who had his photos stolen by scammers. Her argument was that HE HAD A RESPONSIBILITY to explain himself to those who lost money. She even believes he was the [...]

RSN™ Editorial: Demanding Answers – Living In Denial

RSN™ Editorial: Demanding Answers - Living In Denial Some People Simply Cannot Accept That They Were Scammed After a certain number of years supporting victims we have learned to recognize those victims that refuse to believe. Many of you have family and friends that are also this way. They present almost no information and then challenge you to prove that their "person" is a scammer. Unfortunately, there are estimated to be over a billion fake [...]

Nigerian Scammer Shows Off His Elderly White Bride

Sweet Love: Young Nigerian Scammer Shows Off His Elderly White Bride Love is a beautiful thing, and when it happens, it does not respect race, financial status or age. However, scammers only respect money! This is another example of Love Rats engaging in marriage scams. African marriage scams frequently target the elderly, especially women. Once the marriage is complete, under African law, the man controls everything, and the woman cannot even leave the country without [...]

Stupid Things People Will Believe!

OMG - The Stupid Things People Will Believe! We had this come up again today, so wanted to share the story of another victim. The purpose is not to shame them, but to use them as an example for the rest of you. We had someone call our offices a while back and try to convince us that U.S. Military Officers and Enlisted Personnel are allowing scammers to use their photos (and presumably their identities) [...]

See A Red Flag And Move On!

See A Red Flag And Move On! HERE IS A RIDDLE: HOW MANY RED FLAGS CAN YOU FIT INSIDE YOUR HEAD? Obviously, for most victims it is a lot! You see the RED FLAGS and ignore them. Then after a while your brain and the scammer work against you so that you don't see them at all. But in the beginning you saw them ... To avoid scammers you first have to accept a simple [...]

ACCUSATIONS AGAINST PERSONS IN STOLEN PHOTOS

Editorials & Opinions On Scamming ACCUSATIONS AGAINST PERSONS IN STOLEN PHOTOS For some time, there have been a number of die-hard believers in the idea that all, or most of the people in the stolen photos are in league with the scammers, or that they themselves are the scammers. This Is Living In Denial There is evidence, held by Davin Rosenblatt that Yuliana Avalos and her boyfriend have been connected to African scammers. Either in [...]

Denial Is A River In Nigeria

Denial Is A River In Nigeria For those of you who are SO AFRAID that your family or friends will find out you have been scammed, think about this! That VERY SAME FEAR is what is most likely going to get you scammed again and again. You are showing that you have not learned. You are showing that you have not accepted your role in what happened. You are showing you are still in denial. [...]

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