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SCARS™ Scam Basics: Reporting To The Local Police
Every Single Day, Victims Speak About Their Experience Reporting To Their Local Police!
IMPORTANT: Not every country is the same!
This article mostly applies for victims in stable, rule of law countries. This includes the United States, Canada, UK & Europe, Australia, New Zealand, and some others.
Not all countries have professional police, so you will have to decide if it is worth the potential problems to report in your country.
NEVER REPORT SCAMS TO THE POLICE IN ANY FUNDAMENTALIST MUSLIM COUNTRY BECAUSE OF REAL RISK TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
You Need To Know That Reporting Matters!
It is vitally important that your local police and national police know and understand these crimes.
Only through your reports can they do that. They can only see what is reported. They can’t guess, assume, or project – they can only work from real data. Your report provides that.
Even though nothing may happen after you report, the report itself is very important to help stop future scams because government can then allocate resources to address this issue, without the reports they remain ignorant about the true magnitude of scams.
REPORTING TO YOUR LOCAL POLICE
Are You The Problem!?
You may need an attitude adjustment before you walk into the Cop Shop. This means you need to understand what you can expect and adjust your expectations to the police correspondingly. If you are unrealistic and too demanding it will not work.
Most victims that report to their local police expect the police to drop everything and get on a plane to arrest a scammer in Ghana. That they will get right to investigating citizens of Nigeria. This is fantasy and not the way things really work.
Also, many victims are so fearful that they are almost incapable of giving the police what they need.
Get Organized
Organize your information so you can give a statement and easily answer questions.
“Just The Facts Ma’am!”
The 92 zillion pages (or more) of your chats with the scammer do not matter to the police. They want hard-data.
Organize who, what, how, and where first. Have your money transfer documents and any identifying information clearly available.
Ask To Leave Just A Report
Just ask the police to take the report for “information purposes only.” Just say you need to get a report number for your insurance. They understand this and will take the report then, and neither you nor they will have any unrealistic expectations.
Realistic Expectations
Remember that your local police cannot investigate anything beyond their jurisdiction – you have seen cop shows on TV right? How often do you see Miami police rushing to New York to arrest someone? Never! Same goes for Ghana and Nigeria.
Also, you will get more attention when you report to the FBI with a local police report number in your statement.
The report number is your gateway to being treated as a credible victim.
Just remember, not everyone understands socially engineered relationship scams. Do not expect the police to be sympathetic if you are angry, fearful, or otherwise aggressive. But they understand fraud and have a fraud department specifically for it in most localities.
Remember, you are reporting a FRAUD – not a fake relationship or a broken heart. Stick to the facts and leave out how hurt you are, they will see and understand that. Most police now know about these crimes. Stay focused on the crime – deception and money. Do not focus on how you were going to have a life together or the other lies you were told – unless they ask.
Let them ask, do not drown them in your emotions and information overload. They know what is important for the report – let them ask if they need more.
Lost Money
- They cannot get your money back.
- Assume your money is gone.
However, with the police report number, you have more power and authority with money transfer services or your bank. Their fraud departments will need that police report number.
Money Laundering / Mules
In most cases, you have nothing to fear!
You are going to them voluntarily to support them. We know of no cases where anyone that reported a scam had any difficulty afterward. But we do know of victims who acted as mules where the police had to find them or where the victim hid it that were prosecuted.
If you received money from third-parties, either a scammer or other victims, report it. If you received parcels or packages, take the items to the police and report it.
Printed Copy
Always get a printed copy of the report for your records.
Local Assistance
In most localities, there are local victims’ assistance advocates – either volunteer or professional. When you walk in ask about this!
If they do not have someone on call for scams, ask for someone that handles “domestic abuse” victims. It is very similar.
Local crime victims advocates can help you with the interviewing and reporting process, but more important can help you with resources » and services that are available to victims in your area or state.
Follow Up
You are probably not going to hear from the police again. Unless they get a request from other authorities or agencies, and in those cases, they will contact you directly. Your report will go into their system and be reported up their network.
Do not expect anything will happen in your case. However, if the scammers really are in your country something may happen.
But as we said: reporting matters since less than 5% of victims report these crimes. This means that your government does not know how bad it is.
If you understand these basics then you will not have any problems with the police. You will be able to get through the process without difficulty or without additional trauma.
Never Be Ashamed
Yes, a scammer scammed you. It is embarrassing only because you let it be.
Remember to remind yourself that you are the victim of a CRIME – period! – everything else is just drama.
NEVER BE ASHAMED!
More Information
- Why Reporting Matters :: CLICK HERE »
- Why Victims Don’t Report :: CLICK HERE »
- Commentary On Reporting :: CLICK HERE »
- How to File a Police Report :: https://www.wikihow.com/File-a-Police-Report »
- How can I get a copy of the police report? :: https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/how-get-copy-police-report.html »
- The Importance of the Police Report :: CLICK HERE »
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FAQ: How Do You Properly Report Scammers?
It is essential that law enforcement knows about scams & scammers, even though there is nothing (in most cases) that they can do.
Always report scams involving money lost or where you received money to:
- Local Police – ask them to take an “informational” police report – say you need it for your insurance
- Your National Police or FBI (www.IC3.gov »)
- The SCARS|CDN™ Cybercriminal Data Network – Worldwide Reporting Network HERE » or on www.Anyscam.com »
This helps your government understand the problem, and allows law enforcement to add scammers on watch lists worldwide.
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Table of Contents
- Every Single Day, Victims Speak About Their Experience Reporting To Their Local Police!
- You Need To Know That Reporting Matters!
- REPORTING TO YOUR LOCAL POLICE
- Are You The Problem!?
- Get Organized
- Ask To Leave Just A Report
- Realistic Expectations
- Lost Money
- Money Laundering / Mules
- Printed Copy
- Local Assistance
- Follow Up
- Never Be Ashamed
- More Information
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At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.
Statement About Victim Blaming
SCARS Institute articles examine different aspects of the scam victim experience, as well as those who may have been secondary victims. This work focuses on understanding victimization through the science of victimology, including common psychological and behavioral responses. The purpose is to help victims and survivors understand why these crimes occurred, reduce shame and self-blame, strengthen recovery programs and victim opportunities, and lower the risk of future victimization.
At times, these discussions may sound uncomfortable, overwhelming, or may be mistaken for blame. They are not. Scam victims are never blamed. Our goal is to explain the mechanisms of deception and the human responses that scammers exploit, and the processes that occur after the scam ends, so victims can better understand what happened to them and why it felt convincing at the time, and what the path looks like going forward.
Articles that address the psychology, neurology, physiology, and other characteristics of scams and the victim experience recognize that all people share cognitive and emotional traits that can be manipulated under the right conditions. These characteristics are not flaws. They are normal human functions that criminals deliberately exploit. Victims typically have little awareness of these mechanisms while a scam is unfolding and a very limited ability to control them. Awareness often comes only after the harm has occurred.
By explaining these processes, these articles help victims make sense of their experiences, understand common post-scam reactions, and identify ways to protect themselves moving forward. This knowledge supports recovery by replacing confusion and self-blame with clarity, context, and self-compassion.
Additional educational material on these topics is available at ScamPsychology.org – ScamsNOW.com and other SCARS Institute websites.
Psychology Disclaimer:
All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only
The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.
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