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alertDon’t Panic

Wait this is the time to panic!

Here’s what happens… You find a great girl online, right?  You spend time, and trust.  Then you decide to move to the next step and compromise yourself – in photos or video or webcam…

Then she drops the knife!

You’ve just been caught in a Romance Blackmail Scam, also known as extortion!

Romance Blackmail Scam

Romance Blackmail Scam

So it comes down to what did you do, and how much have you told “her”?  Most of this originates in Western Africa, in Ghana or Nigeria, or in Asia.  While we have the contact info for the local police, they probably will do nothing.

At this point you need to think through what is the worst that can happen.  Does she have photos or videos?  Does she have your full real name?  Is she your friend on Facebook, along with everyone you know?  Does she have your LinkedIn account?  If she has these, then you are screwed, because this can ruin your life.  Though it is unlikely that you did anything criminal, this can be embarrassing personally and professionally (see the video below).  If she doesn’t have your real name, or any photographic evidence, then why worry.  A written story is just that, a story, and any good reputation services company can help you sort that our easily.

At the point you are being blackmailed it may be too late, but as the saying goes, your failure will be instructive to others.

When meeting and communicating with someone new online (from anywhere), follow these guidelines:

  • You don’t know this person – no matter how much time online you spend – you don’t know them until you know them in person
  • Do a background check if you think it is getting serious – if you can’t afford a couple of hundred dollars, don’t meet people online
  • Do not put yourself in a compromising situation online – meaning no Skype Sex!  Wait and do it in person
  • Avoid Phone sex too! You know you will get in trouble, or at least that sexy girl is more of a slut than you can imagine, plus she will have your phone number
  • Stick to the high moral ground and observe that she is there with you, otherwise is this really the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?
  • Avoid giving out your full real legal name for a long time
  • Avoid telling anyone where you work
  • Avoid giving out family names
  • Avoid letting this person connect to your real Facebook or Twitter accounts for a long time – create a dedicated dating Facebook account just for sharing with her
  • If the person is in the U.S. or Canada check them out, but you can worry less because extortion is a real crime and the U.S. & Canadian police will take it seriously

So in summary, try not to be dumb!

Sexy Scammers Seduce & Blackmail Men Online (Video)

Published On: June 7th, 2014Last Updated: March 24th, 2022Categories: ♠ ARCHIVES & LEGACY CONTENT ♠Tags: , , ,

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  1. Romance Blackmail Scams 1
    David Arevalo December 13, 2019 at 5:46 pm - Reply

    This was the her profile you got it right

  2. Romance Blackmail Scams 2
    Alan April 14, 2016 at 11:45 am - Reply

    What should I do she told me she was going to put on bbc news website unless I gave her £1000 pounds ? This is making me very ill not knowing what’s going to happen donut want my wife to know . I was drunk and stupid?

    • Romance Blackmail Scams 3
      Romance Scams Now Editorial Team April 15, 2016 at 3:30 am - Reply

      Ignore it. No scammer can get things posted on the BBC. Possible in a comment, but not photos. This is a typical scam.

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If you need to speak with someone now, you can dial 988 or find phone numbers for crisis hotlines all around the world here: www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines

A Note About Labeling!

We often use the term ‘scam victim’ in our articles, but this is a convenience to help those searching for information in search engines like Google. It is just a convenience and has no deeper meaning. If you have come through such an experience, YOU are a Survivor! It was not your fault. You are not alone! Axios!

A Question of Trust

At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.

Statement About Victim Blaming

Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.

These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.

Articles like these help victims and others understand these processes and how to help prevent them from being exploited again or to help them recover more easily by understanding their post-scam behaviors. Learn more about the Psychology of Scams at www.ScamPsychology.org

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All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only

The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.

While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.

Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.

If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.

Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.

If you are in crisis, feeling desperate, or in despair please call 988 or your local crisis hotline.