HOW TO IDENTIFY A SCAM?
Any of the following behaviors should raise concerns that the person you are interacting with is a scammer:
::: Long distance relationships :::
- If you do come into contact with someone who is living in another city OR COUNTRY and can’t afford a plane ticket to visit, consider your options carefully.
- We advise that you never send money to anyone you have met online.
- If you have been in touch on email and phone, and you would really like to meet.
- We suggest you meet somewhere neutral or else if you are prepared to take a chance and meet someone in another state or city, visit them and pay your own way.
- Never send money to anyone that wants to visit you.
::: Declarations of love :::
- If someone you are in contact with starts declaring their love for you within a matter of weeks (or even days), be cautious.
- This is a RED FLAG and hints that you are talking to a scammer.
- The emails may be long and romantic, so be careful to use your best judgment.
- If you are unsure, get a second opinion from a friend or suggest a phone call with them to help you make a decision about this person’s intentions.
::: The age of the member :::
- Are they young and good-looking or out of your age range (such as younger by 20 years?
- This could be a scammer.
- Scammers target older victims.
::: Requests for money :::
- Beware of any mention of financial difficulty and the need or request for financial assistance.
- This can come in the form of requests for money to pay for a visa, an airfare or to help a sick relative, or asking for your personal or financial details.
- Beware of anyone asking you to use a wire transfer service.
::: Someone offers money to you :::
- These are always scams. Always.
- This includes emails requesting your account details so transfers can be made, and emails announcing that you’ve won a lottery or cash prize.
- Never accept to receive money for them either, money laundering is a serious crime punishable with jail time.
::: Identify a love scam :::
- Impersonating using pictures of good looking men from the USA or Europe on social networks.
- Impersonate with pictures of sexy women.
- Members of the military in Africa or the Middle East.
- A recent widower who would like to find a spouse.
- Someone of mixed heritage, the father originating from USA or Europe, while the mother is from Malaysia or vice versa.
- Have great and successful careers such as businessmen, doctors, government officials and so on.
- Stating that he is a former refugee from an African country and has funds in several countries that cannot be withdrawn.
- Suspicious and fake social media account with extremely limited personal photos (Three or five pictures only).
- Taking a long time to reply a message through email or other social networks.
- Trying to avoid communication through the computer’s webcam.
Sweet and romantic nicknames were called in a short period of time. - Using sweet words to seduce.
- Promising to marry.
- Will send packages containing lavish gifts.
- Will come to YOU to visit victims and families.
- Using a third party account (owned by a local citizen).
- The victim is required to pay for the parcel that was sent.
- Asking for money even if he has never met the victim.
- Asking for money for sick children.
- Asking for money for a child’s present.
- Business opportunities from someone you have never met.
THESE ARE ALL MASSIVE RED FLAG AND HINT THAT THIS PERSON IS A SCAMMER.
PASS THIS KNOWLEDGE ON AND SHARE IT WIDELY.
THE PERSON YOU SAVE COULD BE A CLOSE FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER.
At this point in time, every one of you know at least one victim and you probably don’t know it.
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Table of Contents
- ::: Long distance relationships :::
- ::: Declarations of love :::
- ::: The age of the member :::
- ::: Requests for money :::
- ::: Someone offers money to you :::
- ::: Identify a love scam :::
- THESE ARE ALL MASSIVE RED FLAG AND HINT THAT THIS PERSON IS A SCAMMER.
- At this point in time, every one of you know at least one victim and you probably don’t know it.
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If you need to speak with someone now, you can dial 988 or find phone numbers for crisis hotlines all around the world here: www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines
A Note About Labeling!
We often use the term ‘scam victim’ in our articles, but this is a convenience to help those searching for information in search engines like Google. It is just a convenience and has no deeper meaning. If you have come through such an experience, YOU are a Survivor! It was not your fault. You are not alone! Axios!
A Question of Trust
At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.
Statement About Victim Blaming
Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.
These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.
Articles like these help victims and others understand these processes and how to help prevent them from being exploited again or to help them recover more easily by understanding their post-scam behaviors. Learn more about the Psychology of Scams at www.ScamPsychology.org
Psychology Disclaimer:
All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only
The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.










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