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Using The Military Again
Truly Scum Using Our Military To Scam Us!
She is looking for a “Sole Mate” Guess She lost a shoe!
This Romance Website Scammer Is:
Anita Akoako, 34 (lucilove45)
New York, NY or London?
akoakoanita@yahoo.com
The Scammer’s Details Are:
am looking for a sole mate. Age: 34 Gender: Female Orientation: Heterosexual Country: United States Location: New York, NY Height: 5 ft. 6 in. Body Type: Average Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Hair Color: Black hair Eye Color: Blue Religion: Christian / Catholic Astrological sign: Gemini Level of Education: Associates degree Occupation: Government and Policy Income: I’ll tell you later Smoking: Non-smoker & don’t mind smokers Drinking: Don’t Drink Relationship Status: Never Married Have Children: No Want Children: Yes Looking to meet a: Male Age: 18 to 99 Relationship Desired: I’ll tell you later
The Scammer’s Written Description Is:
I am a very open and kind person. I prefer active life style and like sport. I take part in cultural and sport events in my city. I was born in loving family and have very close relations with my family. I have a younger brother and love him very much. I have many plans and dream and I am sure they will come true one day,attractive slim Blonde. I have my dear son, he is 7. I spend much time with him and want to give the best for him. I like spending time with my friends. I value kindness, honesty and sincerity. I am a good housekeeper and like make my home cozy.
No mention of Military, plus conflicting cities/locations. English is off also for someone from UK or US.
Her Messages Were:
Message #1
hello am a Anita by name and my pleasure
akoakoanita@yahoo.com
thanksMessage #2
well am in a peace keeping in Iraq but am now in London
now where i was born i have access to yahoo give me
your id or add em and chat with me on yahoo now am on line
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