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Sarah Wisdom Desire Being me Ruddsarah12@yahoo.com –
A Long Winded Scammer From Nigeria
This one wrote a novel!
This Romance Website Scammer Is:
Sarah Rudd
Ruddsarah12@yahoo.com
Wisdom_desire12
IP Address: 154.122.9.23 United Arab Emirates
Her Message:
I’m Sarah, let keep this real simple, straight and honest, I’m presently living in Lilbourn, Missouri, I’m single looking for real, honest man who speaks his mind, someone who knows what he truly wants from a relationship and knows how to treat his woman. I am ready for a long time but I would like to start out as friends, then see where it leads, i have come across many false people on here but still, i believe the darkest night is often the bridge to the brightest tomorrow. If you’re interested you can write me via email… (Ruddsarah12@yahoo.com) or you add me to your Yahoo Instant IM. I look forward to your further correspondence… :-)
Her Email:
Sorry for my lateness in response to your note on confirio. I got your email and i must say its so refreshing to get such a kind response from you, I must buttress the fact that you a very kind, understanding, matured man, an epitome of intelligence, you have a positive view on life and it is very apparent that as you are stunning physically as well so is your heart wonderful. Believe me; I am overwhelmed with all that you enclosed in your response back to me and I must say emphatically that it’s breathe taken, for I sure do take my time to read your words and view your profile properly and carefully because it is interesting and this has instigate me to reach you with this message back as a response. Well i do believe you would agree with me that trust is needed to be earned. I would like to know more about you and see where the chemistry leads, if you would do give us the chance to know each other and visualize the chemistry that will enable us become a perfect soul mate or acquaintance depending on how far this goes together with us because I am very much ready to be to you that wonderful woman you so much desire to live the rest of your life with cos i have faith and believe that everything is possible with faith and consistency. I have come across many liars and perverts on here and i hope you understand what i mean? Please give me the benefit of doubt to prove my seriousness in having a sustainable relationship with you that begin on a platter of friendship, based on trust and honesty! Please trust me; I am not into any silly games nor fairy tales, neither do I have any string whatsoever attached to my motive of contacting you. However I promise you with my life that you will forever cherish my presence in your life if you ever give me the chance to be part of your life; how I wish you could see through my heart and fathom my depth of seriousness. I am a woman that considers relationship as a priority, a God fearing and loving woman with good personality. A woman of integrity and sense of humor; I know what I want and go for it, above all it is my sincere desire to treat you with respect as my man, my king if we get connected together and always put smile on your face forever as we live together as perfect soul mate… Though it takes time but i am willing to learn more about you. It’s nice knowing you are here for some serious. Well to put your mind at ease, i am here living in New Madrid, Missouri, I beseech you not to let the distance be an obstacle to achieve our heart desire because the distance between two hearts is not an obstacle; rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be, for distance does not matter if two hearts are loyal to one another. Let me ask you, after all the fake people and liars you have met on here, whats it about me that really caught your attention that make you still wanted to talk to me? I want you to know honesty is all i seek on here. I really would like to know what happened to romance between 2 people? What happened to walks in the park or asking how someone`s day is going? Everyone wants to go straight to the bedroom. Or when asked the definition of romance, the response is always sexual. There is more to romance than what occurs in the bedroom. Don`t get me wrong; I am not implying that I am an Angel, but my conversation is more in depth than you telling me what you can do to me or what you would like for me to do to you. The “right” man takes the time to find out that there is more to a woman than what is between her legs. I seeks friendship that entails good conversation, going out together and getting to know one another. If the spark ignites then things go further. If there is no spark, at least I have gained an acquaintance.
Everyone wants successful relationship, yet they often don’t know when they have it. For most, successful relationship is the desire for a ‘better life’, or more happiness and peace, however, successful relationship is not based on materialistic wealth or financial things i can get from a man. I understand a relationship is to be build from the platonic to the erotic part and it only happens though the passage of time, I wonder why so many people you have met on here have treated you so bad one way or the other, Its a shame to womanhood well this is real and i do want this to work. I want you and i mean my words to you. I do understand why you have your guards up and i do respect you for being a honest man. If kindness is shared, support given, and love sought. Success matters most when pain enters our lives. Pain hurts yet, we must remember when tears are on the outside, healing is on the inside. Success will take us where we want to go however, the designated driver of success lies somewhere hidden deep in the mysteries of love…
I hope you had a wonderful day today, Its so late now. I sure will be looking forward to your prompt response with much sensual thoughts if you eventually find interest in a kinda simple woman like me. I would be patiently waiting to talk to you so we can have a glimpse of each others personality because I am for real…
© Sarah
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