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Collection # Fake Females
Scammer’s use language for specific purposes
Sometimes to test how tolerant victims are
Scammer Grammar
Scammers are always looking for more effective words. Many people have learned to be on their guard, and they’re likely to suspect an overly aggressive phishing phone call from a fake credit card customer service agent speaking accented English. But victims still fall for the bad language use every day!
Online scammers use similar techniques. When texting or emailing their marks, or posting information in fake profiles, or messaging, they often work from “scripts” of prewritten boilerplate language. The most effective conversational gambits are saved and distributed to other scammers in the network, and they cut-and-paste the scripts into their grifts at crucial moments.
BUT THEY SOMETIMES ARE FORCED TO IMPROVISE!
This is where the scammer grammar becomes more obvious.
The following are examples of language we have seen and copied to share their unscripted writing styles:
CutiePet
I am a woman who finds deep care and humble commitment in her heart and excellence in service to man and thrives to I can spend the rest of my life With I am a woman who has a winning personality and clean straight forward character : always with a smile on his face and a warm inviting open heart, I am a woman can and should support her husband in all areas of life. . . be there on my side in good times and bad-! A proposal to make a living. . . great life one, but also with exhaustive love-energy and love-commitment to invest, I am a woman who participate in the male role with deep cultural understanding. . . can transfer this role and be a role model for children and I am a woman who is not afraid to learn to live according to the social position of the family, and still do have the capacity erotic and sexual drive to attend his man with great personal desire, obedience and loving attention!
Kathy Ward (banluoot101) kathyward213@yahoo.com
Hi it really nice meeting you on here, i just went through your profile and your pics caught my eye’s and i will like to know more about you, if you care you can add me as kathyward213 at yahoo dot com so we can chat and get to know each other better.
Kathy care’s
lovetussle77
I am a complete optimist, I prefer to be in good mood, no matter what! I have many hobbies and interests and I enjoy sports. I am a very jolly person and have a lot of friends. You will find me an easy going person and I build many friends. And my family are really close to me and they are my inspirations in life. I love beach and any romantic places since i am quite romantic person, sweet but funny. I love to cook and maintain our house clean, in short I am organize in all the thing I do and if soon I will meet my man I am ready for him,in everything. He will not regret i’m one of kind. You can trust me, love me and laugh with me. You will not be alone because I will stay for him forever. I am looking for a man whom I can share my whole life being with him, who makes me comfortable in his arms and who makes me happy in our life. And who will be able to handle time management to his work and family. I want him also to be protective, supportive, serious and responsible.
Loretta Mabar lorettamabar@gmail.com
I am honest and caring lady with a good sense of humor. I enjoy meeting new people and their way of life. I enjoy that parts of the world, the calm of the sea the beauty of the mountains and everything that life has to offer.
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Hello Dear,
my name is loretta I was passing by this site when i saw your profile which really get me very interested in knowing you more. I would appreciate if we get to know ourselves as soon as possible asi have something serious to discuss with you. You can contact me on my personal email so that i will tell you more about myself also give you my photo. (lorettamabar@gmail.com)thanks waiting
Becky Page becky90780@gmail.com AKA: Beck Ellis, Yusifyn Destiny
I am easy going, down to heart, I Love swimming a lot and also playing Video games with my Daughter, I like going shopping, cuddling, Kissing That person I love so much, I’m open, sensual, kind, gentle, romantic,I’m a very family oriented, sensitive and tender person, I want to give All of my tenderness and care to my special man, I enjoy nature, seeing The stars at night, listening to the sounds of nature, being near the Water, as I love the ocean and sea, I like traveling, diving, dancing,Drawing, skating and bowling, billiards, football (soccer), I enjoy Music so much, classical and modern…I’m Looking for a friend and partner, really looking for a serious Relationship! I want to meet the right, special person, a serious man,Who wants to create a strong and nice marriage.
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How are you doing? I would like to learn more about you
and what you are looking for in a lady. You can hit me
on my mail box at becky90780@gmail.com
Jessica Penden jessicapenden@yahoo.com
I am New to this on-line dating world, I am Hispanic, I was born in San Juan, Puerto Rico, I am down to Heart woman, I am A good listener, I love to be there for my man and care for each other, i am so honest and i want my man to be honest with me too, i am new to this and i believe in meeting face to face and have full confidence in each other, I have high sex drive to satisfy my man and take good care of my man is my greatest joy… if you are the right man for me please let me know and be honest with me…and i hope you can give me unconditional love?
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Hello, How are you doin? my name is jessica Penden, I was born in Bosque Estatal De Guanica, Puerto rico, I am new to this online dating scene and i am looking for an honest man who is ready to take good care of me and love me for whom i am and be honest with me and ready to give me true unconditional love with alot of understanding and satisfy me sexually and make me cummm like never before …
Here is my email address to tell me more about you..
Email me here::: jessicapenden AT YAHOO DOT COM
Yahoo Messenger…jessicapenden
Add me to chat online now on yahoo messenger
I am waiting for you online to chat and meet face to face.
Jessica.ADD ME TO CHAT ONLINE ON YAHOO AND PLAN ON HOW TO HOOK UP AND SEE
MY PICS
Natalya
Easy going, active woman with a good sense of humour and a broad range of interests seeking a similar minded man! I am an easy going, fun loving person who loves keeping active, and am seeking a similar minded man for great company and shared experiences. I have a good sense of humour (ask my friends!) and a broad range of interests ranging from health & fitness, investing, property, current affairs, art, music and movies. I enjoy keeping busy and active, and love being outdoors, the beach, swimming, going for walks, riding and just keeping fit. I also love traveling, experiencing and learning about different cultures. I am a successful professional, financially secure and am now ready to settle down and share my life with a special man. Would love to hear from you, as I’m sure we could find something to talk about. Will share my photo with you after we have initial contact.
- акаша / Natalya from Russia
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I hope you’re waiting for my answer and you’ll soon meet. I really hope that everything will be fine and we will be able to know one another better. When I saw your profile, you liked me. How would you
like, what I would call you? Have some something original name?
I do not know where to begin our conversation, it’s the first time.
Tell me about themselves. What interests you?
I am sending you a photo. You liked my photo on the website loveaccess?
And this photo i was in park.
I look forward to your reply.
Natalya
Luisa
I am Luisa and hoping to meet a good man here with similar interests and ambitions for a loving and devoted family. It would be nice to meet kind, decent, caring, responsible, serious with his intentions, understanding man with good sense of humor
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thanks for ur mail u sent to me and iwould like to know u and u will also know me when u reply with ur idd okay
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hi nice to here from u once again and now i live in the west coast of africa after my dad death my mum remarried to anther man thats why we relocate toghana here and if u want to know more about u do reply back with ur idd so that we can know more about me okay
The Stolen Faces Used For The Above
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