SCARS Archives Example Scammer Grammar
Collection #10 Fake Females

Scammer’s use language for specific purposes

Sometimes to test how tolerant victims are

Scammer Grammar

Scammers are always looking for more effective words. Many people have learned to be on their guard, and they’re likely to suspect an overly aggressive phishing phone call from a fake credit card customer service agent speaking accented English. But victims still fall for the bad language use every day!

Online scammers use similar techniques. When texting or emailing their marks, or posting information in fake profiles, or messaging, they often work from “scripts” of prewritten boilerplate language. The most effective conversational gambits are saved and distributed to other scammers in the network, and they cut-and-paste the scripts into their grifts at crucial moments.


This is where the scammer grammar becomes more obvious.

The following are examples of language we have seen and copied to share their unscripted writing styles:

Elizabeth  Elizabeth Grace  gracetalipan

I’m easy to get along with I look at things that happen there is always an answer why some say I trust to easily. I’m a bit shy at first and will tend to be on the quiet side. I’m also not very good being the “damsel in distress” either. I consider myself a good listener and love to hear all about you. Talking about myself has never come easy for me. I don’t have children but can assume that if you do, they SHOULD mean the world to you! I do want to be a priority and not an option though. My motto: ” To Thine Own Self Be True

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How are you? I’m interested in getting to know you better.  Please tell me more about yourself and what you’re looking for.

I look forward to hearing back soon,


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How are you? Yes, I live in Chicago. I’m open to a long term relationship. I like all different kind of music but I generally listen to jazz the most. It will be cool to get to know someone who likes to work out and keep active, maybe we could work out together and keep each other motivated that would be fun! What are you passionate about? What do you do for a living?… I want relationship that has a solid foundation from the start. I’m romantic, honest and loyal.. I do not waste my time or energy on short-term relationship. I want a man who is very faithful, honest, sincere and trustworthy,patience, respectful as well, I also need someone sweet, easy going/laid back, because I am very sweet, dedicated, simple, emotional/sensitive, grateful for what he has, has a good attitude, understanding, caring, well That’s what I’m looking for hope that’s not too much to ask..

Hope to hear from you



I always treat people with respect and fairness. And I do not play games. My attitude towards life is simply living each day for all its worth, while making something for the future. I can be pragmatic at times, when it’s needed, but balance that with my own humor and lighter side of life. I have an ability to listen. I don’t consider myself as having any major personality flaws. I love learning and achieving my goals. My friends tell me that I am never boring. And they know that they can always count on me in times of need I am here for no other motive but only to find someone I can love with all my heart. This world is a harsh place sometimes. But when two people are right for each other, there is nothing they can’t do by supporting and loving each other. Are you tired of being lonely like me? Do you want to find your special someone you can trust completely? Do you still believe in true love? Are you kind, positive, reliable, faithful and honest in relationship? If yes, we could be right for each other.Please do not hesitate to write me. I’ll be waiting

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Hi, Gloria is my name. Interesting to visit your profile, I cherish it and wish we go for friendly relationship. If you don’t mind, reply me in my email sexygloria92 at yahoo dot com, so that we can communicate conveniently and get acquainted to ourselves. I will be grateful to see your response in my email, while i will get back to you with my details and photos. Warmly regards



I am Joana by name 35 years of age and single never married with no kids.. I have a blond long hair, blue eye, 5’6 ft tall 140 lbs,has a white skin.I have  a measurement of 34C-24-36..I enjoy cooking,traveling and spending good time with friends and loved ones..I am a caring and honest lady seeking for  a man to share the rest of my life with …So if you are interested in having a positive and serious relationship with me,then Email or Add me with this  my Yahoo ID so that we can get to know each other through Chatting or Mailing and Exchanging of Pictures,Thank You ..

Joana ..

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Hi it nice to hear from you on here.. I do speak English and do you have a cell phone and can I have your number so that I can text you and hope to chat with you soon

Pamela Lewis  Miami, Florida  919-701-9296

Am loving, caring and honest lady…I`m 5`7″ 120 with a athletic build, mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening, God Fearing, and a positive person. I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener. I love to play golf and I enjoy chilling with my friend/family , I like going to the movies , or watching movies in my room , I like swimming , fishing, listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling , going bowling and also a good cook.
Typical formula with just a touch of Scammer Grammar.  You find that when they go from website to website, they include a lot of redundant info that is already in their details.  A normal person would talk about desires, needs, wants, not their height.

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Hello, How are you doing? My name is Pamela from Miami, Florida and am 33 years old, single never married with no kid … Am new to this online dating and I am here looking for honest, caring and open-minded man with a long term relationship, I would like to know you better. Can you give me  your yahoo ID so that we can get to know each other better or you can text me to…919-701-9296. Here is my email address…. pamelalewis28 at y a h o o  dot com. Don’t contact me if you are not new on here. Hope to hear from you soon.

Kella Olyphant, PA

I’m a fun loving, ambitious and kind hearted person. I love to travel, I’m good spirited and motivating, I love being around positive motivating people the sky is never the limit… I’m kind, considerate and caring. I’m looking for real love, a lifetime partner… I’m very family orientated, I’m not perfect nobody is but I try to be the best person I can. I’m a good listener and feel it important that in a relationship your partner is not just your lover but also your friend. someone god fearing, god in the center always cause if gods not in it neither am I. I love to laugh I’m serious when I need to be but laughter is important good for the soul…:-) I love music, gospel is my first love, soul, rnb, hip hop, little funky house, slow jams, bit of rare groove, afro beats, soca, reggae and all the old school stuff… im a genuine person i like to keep it real

Carol Owens  (614-594-8643)

Hello, How are you doing? My name is Carol Owens from Miami Florida,Am 34 years old, single never married with no kid … Am new to this online  dating and I am here looking for honest, caring and open-minded man with a long term relationship, I would like to know you better. Can you give me  your yahoo ID so that we can get to know each other better, or you can text me to my num… (614-594-8643). Here is my email address…. carolowens34  at y a h o o dot c o m. or carolowens34 at gmail . com Hope to hear from you soon.

Mercy J

I am very family-oriented person, I live life by one rule – treat others the way you expect to be treated yourself. I am very fare, kind-hearten, spiritual, reliable, honest, responsible, understanding, and purposeful and have a very big will power. I believe in good things in life and always stay positive.

Remember: you cannot rely on these examples to be the way your scammer will speak or write! Scammers have vast amounts of money now and actually hire professional telemarketing scriptwriters to help them with what they call their “formats.” This means the language can be as bad as these, or absolutely perfect – it just depends on the scammer group that a victim connects with.

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