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Mary (starlife414) loveingheart233@yahoo.com
Was the night before Christmas
And the Ghanaians were naughty not nice!
This Romance Website Scammer Is:
Mary (starlife414)
loveingheart233@yahoo.com
New York, NY
The Scammer’s Details Are:
i am looking for true love of my life Age: 38 Gender: Female Orientation: Heterosexual Country: United States Location: New York, NY Height: 5 ft. 6 in. Body Type: Slim/slender Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Hair Color: Black hair Eye Color: Black Religion: Christian / Catholic Astrological sign: Sagittarius Level of Education: High school Occupation: Food Services Income: $25k to $34k Smoking: Non-smoker & don’t mind smokers Drinking: Don’t Drink Relationship Status: Never Married Have Children: No Want Children: Undecided Looking to meet a: Male Age: 45 to 80 Relationship Desired: serious relationship with marriage potential
The Scammer’s Written Description Is:
I want to meet a kind, loving, caring and trustful man, able to give love and to understand what is necessary for a woman to be happy inside the relationship. I wish he would be animal love, would accept my son and could be a good friend for him in future, I want my man to be a true man, with personality and charisma.and I am very family-oriented person, I live life by one rule – treat others the way you expect to be treated yourself. I am very fare, kind-hearted, spiritual, reliable, honest, responsible, understanding, and purposeful and have a very big will power. I believe in good things in life and always stay positive.
Her Chat:
starlife414: well i am here looking for the true love of my life and be with
me: have you found him yet?
starlife414: oh no
starlife414: i am from usa when my dad died so now i am in Ghana with my mum
starlife414: and u
me: of course
starlife414: where are u from
me: what is your name?
me: do you have a yahoo address?
starlife414: mary
starlife414: yes
me: what is it and I will connect?
starlife414: loveingheart233@yahoo.com
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A Note About Labeling!
We often use the term ‘scam victim’ in our articles, but this is a convenience to help those searching for information in search engines like Google. It is just a convenience and has no deeper meaning. If you have come through such an experience, YOU are a Survivor! It was not your fault. You are not alone! Axios!
A Question of Trust
At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.
Statement About Victim Blaming
Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.
These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.
Articles like these help victims and others understand these processes and how to help prevent them from being exploited again or to help them recover more easily by understanding their post-scam behaviors. Learn more about the Psychology of Scams at www.ScamPsychology.org
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All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only
The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.
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