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OkCupid.com Stolen Adult Star Photo Scammer – “YourMineHeart”
futureisalive@yahoo.com – Ghanaian Scammer on OKcupid.com
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Her OkCupid.com Details
Updated September 2018
- Orientation – Straight
Ethnicity – Black
Height – 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type – Average
Diet – Mostly anything
Smokes – No
Drinks —
Drugs – Never
Religion – Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign – Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education – Graduated from university
Job – Student
Income – Less than $20,000
Relationship Status – Single
Relationship Type —
Offspring – Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets – Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks – English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently)
Gallery – Her Real Name Is Bianca
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About Her:
- 32 [the woman in the photo is clearly in her 20’s]
- Buffalo, NY [how is someone from Buffalo fluent in Afrikaans?]
- Woman
Good, kind, simple and natural lady. Maybe a little bit dreamy. I adapt quickly new places and people; I like to discover the world deeper. I consider the woman’s power and energy can create house and home, conciliation and respect in the family! I put my whole soul and love into my relatives and close people. I’m easy-going lady with a sweet temper and good sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life: what am doing with my life now is, i want to live it the fullestI’m really good at: cooking,love and danceFavorite books, movies, shows, music, and food: my favorite book is, kiss my world and my music is John legend tonightThe six things I could never do without: is,learning book,singing,dancing, going to the beach,excise,church and friendsI spend a lot of time thinking about: my future and where i want to be with my loverOn a typical Friday night I am: party night
You should message me if: futureisalive@yahoo.com
Insights:
If you look at the highlighted sections you see very odd language for someone from the U.S. – it is pure Scammer Grammar. You can teach scammers to talk, but you can’t change their culture and it always leaks out.
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SCARS Institute articles examine different aspects of the scam victim experience, as well as those who may have been secondary victims. This work focuses on understanding victimization through the science of victimology, including common psychological and behavioral responses. The purpose is to help victims and survivors understand why these crimes occurred, reduce shame and self-blame, strengthen recovery programs and victim opportunities, and lower the risk of future victimization.
At times, these discussions may sound uncomfortable, overwhelming, or may be mistaken for blame. They are not. Scam victims are never blamed. Our goal is to explain the mechanisms of deception and the human responses that scammers exploit, and the processes that occur after the scam ends, so victims can better understand what happened to them and why it felt convincing at the time, and what the path looks like going forward.
Articles that address the psychology, neurology, physiology, and other characteristics of scams and the victim experience recognize that all people share cognitive and emotional traits that can be manipulated under the right conditions. These characteristics are not flaws. They are normal human functions that criminals deliberately exploit. Victims typically have little awareness of these mechanisms while a scam is unfolding and a very limited ability to control them. Awareness often comes only after the harm has occurred.
By explaining these processes, these articles help victims make sense of their experiences, understand common post-scam reactions, and identify ways to protect themselves moving forward. This knowledge supports recovery by replacing confusion and self-blame with clarity, context, and self-compassion.
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The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
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