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Romance Scam Demographics
According to the U.S. Government’s IC3 Organization, their 2012 Annual Report (their latest as of this posting) showed the following.
Remember, this is only based upon the reports they received, the actual numbers are perhaps 10 to 20 times larger!
Total Complaints To The IC3 Are Down In Latest Report
Romance Scams
Perpetrators use the promise of love and romance to entice and manipulate online victims. A perpetrator scouts the Internet for victims, often finding them in chat rooms, on dating sites and even within social media networks. These individuals seduce victims with small gifts, poetry, claims of common interest or the promise of constant companionship. Once the scammers gain the trust of their victims, they request money, ask victims to receive packages and reship them overseas or seek other favors. These cyber criminals capitalize on the vulnerabilities of their victims. This crime not only affects the victims financially, there are emotional and mental implications as well. The IC3 received 4,467 complaints and the victims’ losses totalled more than $55 million.
- Be cautious of individuals who claim it was destiny or fate and you are meant to be together, or claim God brought you to him/her. They often claim to love you within 24-48 hours.
- These individuals want your address to send you flowers, candy and teddy bears, often purchased with stolen credit cards.
- They ask for your phone number, but when they call, you can barely understand them.
- Be wary if an individual tells you they are so in love with you that they cannot live without you but they need you to send them some money so they can come to see you. To them, love equals financial assistance. If you do not send them money or help them out with what they ask, you do not love them.
- They typically claim to be from the United States (or your local region) but they are overseas, or going overseas, mainly to Nigeria or Ghana or Western Africa, sometimes the UnitedKingdom, for business or family matters.
Romance Scams Victim Demographics
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Some of our articles discuss various aspects of victims. This is both about better understanding victims (the science of victimology) and their behaviors and psychology. This helps us to educate victims/survivors about why these crimes happened and to not blame themselves, better develop recovery programs, and to help victims avoid scams in the future. At times this may sound like blaming the victim, but it does not blame scam victims, we are simply explaining the hows and whys of the experience victims have.
These articles, about the Psychology of Scams or Victim Psychology – meaning that all humans have psychological or cognitive characteristics in common that can either be exploited or work against us – help us all to understand the unique challenges victims face before, during, and after scams, fraud, or cybercrimes. These sometimes talk about some of the vulnerabilities the scammers exploit. Victims rarely have control of them or are even aware of them, until something like a scam happens and then they can learn how their mind works and how to overcome these mechanisms.
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Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
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