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REAL SCAMMER: Andry Mary Atibaka (atibakamary93) andry.mary93@yahoo
Another Lovely Real African Scammer
They don’t care, because they know we can’t do anything about it!
This Romance Website Scammer Is:
Andry Mary Atibaka (atibakamary93)
andry.mary93@yahoo.com
From Atlanta GA. Living in Augusta, Georgia. Completed graduate school at OAU.
The Scammer’s Details Are:
Do you drink? No Do you smoke? No Do you do drugs? No Religion: Christian How tall are you? 5’2″ (157.48 cm.) How much do you weigh? 131 lbs. (59 kg.) Do you like pets? Yes Do you want kids? Yes What color is your hair? Brown Do you wear glasses? No Life is: Alright Do you daydream a lot?Sometimes What kind of student are you? A Do you read a newspaper daily?Yes What is the derivative of x2? Don’t know Do you have a car? No Do you have a motorcycle? No Ever been to Paris? No Ever been to Miami? No Have any piercings? No Any tattoos? No Do you use Facebook or Twitter?No Do you normally start conversations with people or do you let them start conversations with you? I usually let others start the conversation How many times did you go out per week last year on average? 5-7 About many times did you exercise per week last year? 4-6 How many hours of volunteer work did you do last year? 6-20 How many books did you read last year? 1-4
The Scammer’s Written Description Is:
nice and easy going person…I desire a man who first of all will put God first and become my partner in pursuing financial independence. He needs to be motivated and sincere. I despise dishonesty. I like a man who is also affectionate and kind. I am a very caring person that likes to be around people that enjoy life and love to have fun. I’m a simple down to earth person who isn’t much into the materialistic things in life. I value the people who come and go in my life and their friendship.
Her Message:
How are you?,I am Andry Mary Atibaka by name,sorry i ran into your profile the way i did without your permission, honestly i couldn’t just help stop looking at the cute i saw before me. deep down inside of me i felt something about you just kept me looking at your profile and pictures, so i decided to drop you a message. i will like to make this clear, i am not here to flirt around because i am not getting any younger for that, all i want is to get committed to that special man God has prepared for me..I hope to read from you again. you can add me on yahoo messenger (a n d r y.m a r y 9 3 @ y a h o o.c o m).
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