So Many Questions …
About Our Fear
Why are there Victims of Romance ScamsScams A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime - is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost.?
Why do we accept scammers and liars into our life?
Why do we accept the stories and open our hearts to frauds?
Maybe we are afraid to truly look for a real person?
Maybe we want to believe in a fantasy because it is easier to accept the lie instead of continuing to look for someone real?
Maybe there are victims because the scammers know our fear and exploit it?
As we age, we lose our immortality, we become afraid, but why do we accept our fear as normal?
As we age, we gather money and assets, but why are we willing to gamble it all?
As we age, we lose connections, and become more isolated in our mind and life, but why do we accept that?
You are stronger than that, but why can’t you face your fear?
Can you walk away from your fear and find a life that is better?
Can you change the way you think and live with less fear?
Can you face your fear and be happy?
Well, can you?
Well, are you ready?
Well, you can!
It starts with rejecting fantasies in your life.
It starts with accepting the truth of who you are, good or bad.
It starts with accepting that you can be better, do better, feel better.
This is truth.
This is not a fantasy.
This is who you really want to be.
We all have limitations, but limitations can be worked on, and some even overcome.
We all have hard things that we are afraid of, but we can work through those fears.
We all have things we are good at and bad at.
To get where we truly want, we have to work through our fear.
To get what we want, we have to let go of fantasy.
To calm our soul we have to let go of the angerAnger Anger, also known as wrath or rage, is an intense emotional state involving a strong uncomfortable and non-cooperative response to a perceived provocation, trigger, hurt or threat. About one-third of scam victims become trapped in anger for extended periods of time following a scam. A person experiencing anger will often experience physical effects, such as increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, and increased levels of adrenaline and noradrenaline. Some view anger as an emotion that triggers a part of the fight or flight response. Anger becomes the predominant feeling behaviorally, cognitively, and physiologically. Anger can have many physical and mental consequences. While most of those who experience anger explain its arousal as a result of "what has happened to them", psychologists point out that an angry person can very well be mistaken because anger causes a loss in self-monitoring capacity and objective observability. that fear has brought.
You have to become fearless.
You have to trust yourself again.
You have to look forward with open eyes at what is real.