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From time to time we will review dating websites for Scammer Activity.
MATCH.com
Low – Medium Risk Website
Match.com, from our own observations appears to have a low to moderate percentage of Scammers from Africa and Eastern Europe at this time. Over the last year, we have seen a dramatic reduction in the number of scammers on this site. This is no doubt due to the litigation under way at this time.
Right now, we see the most likely scammer candidates as profiles without photos. Remember, that while Match.com is doing a better job, there appear to still be scammers in their member, so be on guard.

Scammers are fairly easy to spot from the following:
- Beware of profiles without photos – this is the scammers latest trick, since they know so many people can easily spot their stolen photos.
- Anyone that uses a last name (though this is only about 10% of the scammers that do this)
- On-line hours – real people are usually on-line in normal hours for your time zone – very late at night is a hint that it’s a scammer.
- Look at the age of the person and the photo – they will not match – it is possible that a real person is not using recent photos, but do you want to talk to them anyway?
- Look at the Verification: they have text message phone numbers so this means nothing, they have Facebook and Google plus accounts so this means nothing too!
- Look at their location. For example: they list Miami or Los Angeles – we all know that ever big metro areas have numerous districts and towns within them, but they list the generic place.
- They tend to cluster in certain towns and cities. Testing their knowledge about these proves fatal to them, so they generally don’t answer these questions (go on Google and look up some business in that town that a local should know) (local parks and landmarks are also good tests)
- Anyone that lists a ridiculous age range, such as “Wants to date with guys, 23-65” – but you will also see “Wants to date with guys, older than 30“
- Real people have a lot of photos – scammers generally have a couple too about 6 – one trick they use is to reload them several times to make it look like they have a larger album
- When your popularity goes up, you are probably being scanned by the scammers, especially as time goes by – since this site is all about “Who’s New”
- Military personnel – scammers love to impersonate military personnel, but don’t get Military structure – if you do, use it to your advantage – they are great ways to catch them in stupid answers.
- Look at their interests – you will find odd and out dated interests, like: CSI Real people have quirky interests, and interests that are local and make sense. Or they have NONE Also, if they have an interest that you don’t recognize, Google it – if it is mostly European or African – run away!
- Anyone that claims to be using a family member or friends profile is a give away, and a violation of the site’s terms and conditions – by definition they are impersonating someone else
- Look at the age, a common mistake is that they put they year of birth in as their age! Stupid scammers!
- In messaging, the scammers trip themselves up in several ways!
- Claim they have languages they don’t have
- Use scammer grammar – watch for it
- Refuse to answer questions about their town in detail
- Don’t seem to read previous message posts that should be right in front of them
- By pass certain topics
- If you mention scammers they claim not to know what you are talking about
- If you catch one and confront them, they don’t know what you mean – a real person accused of being a scammer would be upset
- If you ask out of the blue: “Do you live in a suburb or Accra or in the city proper” (same for Lagos) [Lagos is the Nigerian city where the activity clusters, and Accra is in Ghana]
As a user on the site, we suggest that you make your photos PRIVATE. That way you can share them when you want, but keep them hidden from the scammers.
We strongly urge Match.com to do the right thing, and do a comparison between the location given for the profile and the login IP addresses – this is easy tech and something all dating sites should do. If they don’t match, send them for a human review or delete them – this is the best way to restore faith in your site! We also suggest that they use image comparison technology, to compare against know scammers. They should also compared against known scammer phone numbers and email addresses.
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Statement About Victim Blaming
SCARS Institute articles examine different aspects of the scam victim experience, as well as those who may have been secondary victims. This work focuses on understanding victimization through the science of victimology, including common psychological and behavioral responses. The purpose is to help victims and survivors understand why these crimes occurred, reduce shame and self-blame, strengthen recovery programs and victim opportunities, and lower the risk of future victimization.
At times, these discussions may sound uncomfortable, overwhelming, or may be mistaken for blame. They are not. Scam victims are never blamed. Our goal is to explain the mechanisms of deception and the human responses that scammers exploit, and the processes that occur after the scam ends, so victims can better understand what happened to them and why it felt convincing at the time, and what the path looks like going forward.
Articles that address the psychology, neurology, physiology, and other characteristics of scams and the victim experience recognize that all people share cognitive and emotional traits that can be manipulated under the right conditions. These characteristics are not flaws. They are normal human functions that criminals deliberately exploit. Victims typically have little awareness of these mechanisms while a scam is unfolding and a very limited ability to control them. Awareness often comes only after the harm has occurred.
By explaining these processes, these articles help victims make sense of their experiences, understand common post-scam reactions, and identify ways to protect themselves moving forward. This knowledge supports recovery by replacing confusion and self-blame with clarity, context, and self-compassion.
Additional educational material on these topics is available at ScamPsychology.org – ScamsNOW.com and other SCARS Institute websites.
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The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.





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