Romance Scams – A Quick Overview2021-08-16T01:59:52-04:00

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Romance ScamsScams A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime -  is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost. – A Quick Overview

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Originally published: Jan 15, 2013

Everyone should be alert to attempts at fraudFraud In law, fraud is intentional deception to secure unfair or unlawful gain (money or other assets), or to deprive a victim of a legal right. Fraud can violate civil law (e.g., a fraud victim may sue the fraud perpetrator to avoid the fraud or recover monetary compensation) or criminal law (e.g., a fraud perpetrator may be prosecuted and imprisoned by governmental authorities), or it may cause no loss of money, property, or legal right but still be an element of another civil or criminal wrong. The purpose of fraud may be monetary gain or other benefits, for example by obtaining a passport, travel document, or driver's license, or mortgage fraud, where the perpetrator may attempt to qualify for a mortgage by way of false statements. A fraud can also be a hoax, which is a distinct concept that involves deliberate deception without the intention of gain or of materially damaging or depriving a victim. by persons claiming to live in Ghana who professes friendship or romantic interest over the Internet. Correspondents who quickly move to a discussion of intimate matters could well be the inventions of scammers. If they are after your money, eventually they will ask for it.

Before you send any money to Ghana, or anywhere else, please take the time to be very well informed. Start by considering the fact that scams are common enough to warrant this warning. Next, look over this partial list of indicators. If any of them sound familiar, you are likely the victim of an internet scamScam A Scam is a confidence trick - a crime -  is an attempt to defraud a person or group after first gaining their trust through deception. Scams or confidence tricks exploit victims using their credulity, naïveté, compassion, vanity, irresponsibility, or greed and exploiting that. Researchers have defined confidence tricks as "a distinctive species of fraudulent conduct ... intending to further voluntary exchanges that are not mutually beneficial", as they "benefit con operators ('con men' - criminals) at the expense of their victims (the 'marks')". A scam is a crime even if no money was lost..

  • You met a friend/fiancé online
  • You’ve never met face to face
  • Your correspondent professed love or seriousness at warp speed
  • Your friend/fiancé is plagued with medical problems requiring loans from you, or had a rich parent die in an auto accident, had an evil uncle take all her/his property, trapped there, etc.  Ultimately, with less than 20 communications, the question of sending money to “help” will come up.
  • They have money but can’t get to it, or need to move it out of the country, or you are promised repayment upon the inheritance of alluvial gold or gems
  • You’ve sent large sums for visas or plane tickets but the person cannot seem to make it out of Ghana/Nigeria/Russia/Belize/Brazil, etc.
  • When your friend does try to leave the country, h/she is detained by immigration officials demanding payment or bribes
  • Your correspondent consistently uses lower case “i’s” and/or grammar not in keeping with their supposed life station or education level

Cases bearing these and other hallmarks have all proven to be scams intended to separate sympathetic people from their money. We advise everyone not to send money to people they have never actually met. In the event you do lose money, be warned that your chances of getting it back are almost nil. This type of crime is not a priority for local police, even if they had the resources to tackle it. The Embassy or your country in Ghana, etc., can offer a sympathetic ear but, often, little else. Victims can report the scam on www.ic3.gov and on www.Anyscam.com and might also consider alerting the dating website on which the scammer was encountered.

Some facts and resources:

  • It is very difficult to recover money sent to these scammers as they work from internet cafes and are entirely portable and elusive.
  • Many Americans have reported losing thousands of dollars through such scams.

The anonymity of the Internet means that you cannot be sure of the real name, age, marital status, nationality, or even gender of the correspondent. In the majority of cases reported, the correspondent turned out to be a fictitious persona created only to lure the person into sending money.

U.S. citizens may refer to the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services or the Bureau of Consular Affairs for authoritative information about the immigration process and the true costs involved.

If the correspondent provides an image of a purported U.S. visa as proof of intention to travel, you may contact the United States Embassy in Accra at accrafpm@state.gov, or another country, to ascertain the validity of the visa.

In the aftermath of a scam, some people have found support and camaraderie at a Yahoo Group started by and for scam victims. Participants have reported that the group helps underscore the breadth of the problem and allows people to see they are not alone – please note this group is in no way affiliated with or endorsed by the U.S. government.

This is not all there is to this. This entire website is dedicated to helping the public avoid scams and for victims to learn how to recover! Please take the time to learn how to be safe online.

Always Report All Scams – Anywhere In The World To:

U.S. FTCFTC The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) is an independent agency of the United States government whose principal mission is the enforcement of civil (non-criminal) U.S. antitrust law and the promotion of consumer protection. The FTC can also act as a clearinghouse for criminal reports sent to other agencies for investigation and prosecution. To learn more visit www.FTC.gov or to report fraud visit ReportFraud.FTC.gov at https://reportfraud.ftc.gov/#/?orgcode=SCARS and SCARS at www.Anyscams.com

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7 Comments

  1. Anonymous July 18, 2016 at 12:53 pm - Reply

    I am elderly and have been scammed twice by a scammerScammer A Scammer or Fraudster is someone that engages in deception to obtain money or achieve another objective. They are criminals that attempt to deceive a victim into sending more or performing some other activity that benefits the scammer. by the name of Larry Leroy Wolfe, have reported both scammers to this website, but nothing shows up that he is scammer. How come?? I To be honest I have gotten friend request from 5 Larry Leroy Wolfe’s all different pictures. Can you please get back to me???

    • Romance Scams Now Editorial Team July 19, 2016 at 1:42 am - Reply

      Thank you fro reporting them. We don’t generally follow up afterwards. We receive thousands of reports. If you are on Facebook you should join one of our Victim’s Support GroupsSupport Groups In a support group, members provide each other with various types of help, usually nonprofessional and nonmaterial, for a particular shared, usually burdensome, characteristic, such as romance scams. Members with the same issues can come together for sharing coping strategies, to feel more empowered and for a sense of community. The help may take the form of providing and evaluating relevant information, relating personal experiences, listening to and accepting others' experiences, providing sympathetic understanding and establishing social networks. A support group may also work to inform the public or engage in advocacy. They can be supervised or not. SCARS support groups are moderated by the SCARS Team and or volunteers. – here is one, just click on the link and then on the JOIN button: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RSN.USA.Support.Group/?ref=bookmarks

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    Anna Berbec – Claiming to be US / ITALIAN Living in West Jordan UTAH
    yet she has African accent on phone ;)
    Email traceroute comes back to Ghana

    She ( he ? ) Currently Appears on MANY Dating sites !!

    email – annaberbec@yahoo.com
    facebook – https://www.facebook.com/anna.berbec.37
    http://fubar.com/7155809
    http://www.merrydating.com/profile.php?pid=97982

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