
SCARS Institute’s Encyclopedia of Scams™ Published Continuously for 25 Years

Essential Information For New Scam Victims
After the scam, you are going to be confused, angry, traumatized, and you need to know what you can do!
Anger and revenge are not the path for new scam victims, or at least they should not be. Learning and regaining control of your life is the direction to recovery.
Here are a series of guides and information for new scam victims that will help you better understand what your options are.
The first one to read immediately is the “SCARS 3 Steps Guide For New Victims” – this is your starting place
There is a mountain of information, but just take it one bite at a time. The answers will come that will help you survive this!
PLEASE WATCH THIS
There is so much to learn and understand!
As a new scam victim be patient all the answers are here on this website. But as a new scam victim, it will take time for you to be able to grasp all that you see. Trauma impairs most victims and makes it hard to understand everything.
Are you a Married Romance Scam Victim?
Married Scam Victim has special difficulties ending and recovering from these scams. Here is useful information for you:
Why Do We Separate Information?
We help victims in different stages of recovery, and not all information is suitable for new scam victims. We separate it so that you can find the information you are looking for without additional confussion if you are not ready for it.
Never Be Afraid To Ask For Help!
Only about 1/3 of scam victims will effectively recover from their experience – you need to give yourself the best opportunity to be one of them.
If you are looking for local trauma counselors please visit counseling.AgainstScams.org (U.S. & Worldwide)
After A Scam, You Need To Recover
SCARS Offers Free Support Recovery Programs – visit support.AgainstScams.org to sign up!
Our services are completely confidential and private!
About SCARS
SCARS (the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.) is an incorporated nonprofit crime victims’ assistance and crime prevention organization supporting cybercrime & scam victims worldwide.
SCARS was incorporated in 2015 but its leadership has been supporting scam victims since 1991 – nearly 32 years.
To learn more about SCARS or to see our leadership and other programs visit www.AgainstScams.org
Additional SCARS websites & resources:
- Corporate website: AgainstScams.org
- SCARS Magazine: ScamsNOW.com
- Scammer Photos: ScammerPhotos.com
- Reporting Scams & Scammers: reporting.AgainstScams.org
- SCARS Victim Support Groups: support.AgainstScams.org
- Find trauma counseling or therapy: counseling.AgainstScams.org
- Self-Help DIY Recovery Book Shop: shop.AgainstScams.org
- SCARS membership with benefits: membership.AgainstScams.org
- SCARS on Facebook: news.AgainstScams.org
- SCARS on Twitter: twitter.AgainstScams.org
- SCARS YouTube Videos: youtube.AgainstScams.org
- SCARS on LinkedIn: linkedin.AgainstScams.org
How To Contact SCARS
- EMAIL: Contact@AgainstScams.org
- FACEBOOK MESSENGER: m.me/SCARS.SocietyAgainst.org
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I was 63, after my wife passed last January 2024, in April I joined eHarmony, putting out there I am a widow of just looking to chat. I was very lonely and on a third visit an Asian woman befriended me ultimately, she got me into this short term investing countdown cryptocurrency fraud scheme that I didn’t pick up on until it was too late. I pulled money out of my 401(k) and I took a second mortgage against my house all in all $298,000. I reported all this to the police. I had a photo of the could’ve been a Nigerian I don’t know he was from Brooklyn New York he said and picked up the cash here two times. I must not have been in my own right mind because I never went for anything anything ridiculous in my life like this and I called myself stupid constantly days on end I wanted to put a bullet to my head. I had a side profile head to toe picture of the young man that came to pick up. At one point, the police did come to my house and ultimately took me to the psycho hospital for a few hours, but let me go cause I wasn’t serious about doing that.
In your slides of ‘please watch this’ has helped me so much in lessening the pains and understanding what went on with me.
Gary, we are glad you are a survivor. Please consider enrolling in our Scam Survivor’s School – it’s free – at http://www.SCARSeducation.org
My sisterinlaw is being scamed by him
Does she understand that she is being scammed or denies it?
Read http://www.ScamVictimsSupport.org to learn what you both need to know right now.
So sorry to inform you I just had a guy pose as you he is on X please see if you can take him off i actually looked you up and found this before I let anything get too far but he had stated he is 60 years of age which I knew better from your pictures thank you! sincerely Malisa Davila
Guten Tag, ich werde auch von einen Soldaten er angeblich im Kriegsgebiet Irak betrogen, nach 2 Tagen schrieb er schon die ersten Liebesnachrichten, ich sollte ein Urlaubsantrag stellen und dann sollte ich Geld auf ein Konto von der UNO senden, dieses Bankkonto war sehr seltsam und nach Nachfrage auf der Bank sollte ich dies Anzeigen, was ich auch bei der Polizei getan habe, ich soll den Chat noch weiter laufen lassen, weil das Betrugsdezernat dies wahrscheinlich lesen möchte, ich würde dies aber gerne am besten heute noch Blocken.
Vielen Dank, dass Sie uns kontaktiert haben. Ja, das ist ein Betrug.
Denken Sie daran, das ist nicht Ihre Schuld!
Obwohl wir eine englischsprachige Organisation sind, bieten alle unsere Websites Übersetzungen ins Deutsche an.
Besuchen Sie http://www.ScamVictimsSupport.org, um viel mehr darüber zu erfahren, was Sie jetzt tun können!
I was scammed out of $50,000 just because I believed the lies from the scammers, I’ve even had one come clean with me and told me his name, he was from Nigeria, I was just looking for my soulmate, now I’m so ashamed of my self
This was not your fault, and if you know the real identity of the criminal you might be able to get an arrest. We suggest that you contact us by email so we can see how we can help you. Email us at contact@againstscams.org
I wish that I had found SCARS earlier. The first months after realizing what happened were pretty rough.