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Editorial – A Pandemic Insight
Scams & The Pandemic Are Similar!
A SCARS Editorial
CONSIDER …
Your scam and the pandemic are similar!
Both isolate you
Both feed off of your fear
Both exist in a climate of misinformation and urban legends
Both make you anxious about the future
Both have traumatized you
Both have created artificial barriers between you and your family & friends
Both make it hard for you to emerge from your self-imposed seclusion
Both make it hard to re-integrate with the world
Both make it hard for you to feel part of life & society
Both subject you to social judgment and blame if you do not conform with society’s expectations
Ignoring the medical issues and requirements, both have similar approaches to emotional recovery. To recover and re-emerge you should consider …
Do share your pain & trauma – doesn’t matter what the trauma is, the solution to removing the pain is similar
Do become part of a community – having people that you know that feel similarly that you can understand and that understand you
Don’t be afraid – you now know how to be safe and can apply what you have learned
Don’t wait to be saved – you have to save yourself – vaccines are available now for both scams and the pandemic
Don’t hide – force yourself to be out there and participate – but take small steps – larger each day
Do realize this is mostly over and all you need to do is clean house
Do use these experiences to strengthen your character and integrity, honesty and honor
Do understand that you can help others who cannot see the path out of the darkness – pay it forward
Do commit to your recovery and that includes self-care
Do create a transitional moment – a ritual – a Viking funeral for the scam and the pandemic – allowing yourself to process the grief
Do create a record of the event, the challenges, and your accomplishments – you were a hero!
Do not try to forget everything and block it out, but allow it to fade naturally over time – it will
Do remember that you had friends that helped you through this – even if you don’t know them and they are far far away!
As we see the end to all of this, it is easy to want to throw it all away and move forward quickly. But life-changing experiences will be carried forward with you. How they help or hurt you in the future is a decision you can make right now!
Make good decisions and resolve to make better ones in the future!
Teach yourself now how to make better decisions in the future, so that you can retain the best from what has happened and know how to apply it in your future struggles.
Happy Beginning-Of-The-End!
But Remember …
One of the hardest lessons to accept in life is that we are all prey!
Life is engineered to take and to kill. We are all just a part of a larger ecosystem.
It may be a lion or a virus – we are all vulnerable.
No one is immune.
But we can live our lives being aware but not dominated.
We learn to avoid risks and take precautions.
To live on the edge of the shadow – one foot in the sun and the other in the darkness, ready to lean one way or the other depending on the moment.
But never to live blinded by the light again, or to hide in the darkness afraid.
The path is the edge.
Enjoy both sides of the line while knowing your limits.
This is where we survive and thrive!
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We often use the term ‘scam victim’ in our articles, but this is a convenience to help those searching for information in search engines like Google. It is just a convenience and has no deeper meaning. If you have come through such an experience, YOU are a Survivor! It was not your fault. You are not alone! Axios!
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At the SCARS Institute, we invite you to do your own research on the topics we speak about and publish, Our team investigates the subject being discussed, especially when it comes to understanding the scam victims-survivors experience. You can do Google searches but in many cases, you will have to wade through scientific papers and studies. However, remember that biases and perspectives matter and influence the outcome. Regardless, we encourage you to explore these topics as thoroughly as you can for your own awareness.
Statement About Victim Blaming
SCARS Institute articles examine different aspects of the scam victim experience, as well as those who may have been secondary victims. This work focuses on understanding victimization through the science of victimology, including common psychological and behavioral responses. The purpose is to help victims and survivors understand why these crimes occurred, reduce shame and self-blame, strengthen recovery programs and victim opportunities, and lower the risk of future victimization.
At times, these discussions may sound uncomfortable, overwhelming, or may be mistaken for blame. They are not. Scam victims are never blamed. Our goal is to explain the mechanisms of deception and the human responses that scammers exploit, and the processes that occur after the scam ends, so victims can better understand what happened to them and why it felt convincing at the time, and what the path looks like going forward.
Articles that address the psychology, neurology, physiology, and other characteristics of scams and the victim experience recognize that all people share cognitive and emotional traits that can be manipulated under the right conditions. These characteristics are not flaws. They are normal human functions that criminals deliberately exploit. Victims typically have little awareness of these mechanisms while a scam is unfolding and a very limited ability to control them. Awareness often comes only after the harm has occurred.
By explaining these processes, these articles help victims make sense of their experiences, understand common post-scam reactions, and identify ways to protect themselves moving forward. This knowledge supports recovery by replacing confusion and self-blame with clarity, context, and self-compassion.
Additional educational material on these topics is available at ScamPsychology.org – ScamsNOW.com and other SCARS Institute websites.
Psychology Disclaimer:
All articles about psychology and the human brain on this website are for information & education only
The information provided in this article is intended for educational and self-help purposes only and should not be construed as a substitute for professional therapy or counseling.
While any self-help techniques outlined herein may be beneficial for scam victims seeking to recover from their experience and move towards recovery, it is important to consult with a qualified mental health professional before initiating any course of action. Each individual’s experience and needs are unique, and what works for one person may not be suitable for another.
Additionally, any approach may not be appropriate for individuals with certain pre-existing mental health conditions or trauma histories. It is advisable to seek guidance from a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your specific needs.
If you are experiencing significant distress or emotional difficulties related to a scam or other traumatic event, please consult your doctor or mental health provider for appropriate care and support.
Also read our SCARS Institute Statement about Professional Care for Scam Victims – click here to go to our ScamsNOW.com website.
If you are in crisis, feeling desperate, or in despair please call 988 or your local crisis hotline.