i PUT MY PHOTO AND INFORMATION IN A SMALL MAGAZINE IN PHILIPPINES AND RECEIVED 74 PHOTOS OF GIRLS WHO WERE INTERESTED IN ME. i WROTE BACK FOR 5 MONTHS AND VISITED THREE OF THE BEST THEM WERE ALL NICE WOMEN AND i PICKED THE BEST OF THE LITTER AND WE WENT THROUGH THE VISA PROCESS IT TOOK 15 MONTHS THE US EMBASSY -PEOPLE ARE A-HOLES. WE HAVE A BEAUTIFUL GIRL AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 20 YEARS. I FOUND IT IS BETTER FOR THEM TO PICK YOU OUT THAN TO WRITE TO GIRLS IN DATING WEBSITES THEY HAVE MANY MEN WRITING TO THEM