RSN STEPS™ RECOVERY PROGRAM

RSN STEPS™ RECOVERY PROGRAM

Step 6

Make direct amends to people you wronged wherever possible.

This gives you the opportunity to make things right with those that you have hurt, even if it was as simple as an insult.

This lets you take action and apologize to those you have harmed with your behavior.

This can provide you with peace of mind, relief and liberation from the chains of regret. Just use good judgment (think carefully about this since your past judgment was not so good!). Also, have a careful sense of timing, not every moment is the right moment. Be courageous and cautious, honest and sincere, respectful and non-combative.

What Do You Need To Do?

Think about the different categories of people you should make amends with. Those who you …

  • Physically hurt
  • Financially hurt
  • Emotionally hurt
  • Verbally hurt
  • Criminally hurt

Think about those you should approach as soon as you can. Think about those you can only make partial amends with since further disclosure may cause more harm than good. Think about those you shouldn’t take action with at all (you need to let others do this first, such as the police). Think about those you can’t make direct contact with because you don’t know how.

This is important so take your time. Use your best judgment in disclosing your issues, making your apology, and explaining how you are going to make them whole (if possible).

Don’t put yourself in a worse situation, such as admitting a crime or your own part in further fraud without consulting an attorney first.

Don’t say anything that will harm others. It defeats the purpose of making amends if what you say will cause further pain and suffering.

Don’t mistake carefulness for avoidance. Practice good timing when making amends but don’t use that as an excuse to delay reconciliation.

Remember, full disclosure may harm the one with whom you are making amends, or quite often, other people. It won’t make you feel any better to increase their burden any further. However, you also have to balance this with their right or need to know, such as in the case of your family.

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Anonymous
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i dont want to comment or open my name in public. hoe can i give their telephone numbers

CHRISTINE MOUTON
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I’M BEING SCAMMED BY A MAN NAMES HUNTER PHYLLIS SAY’S HE WORKS IN SYRIA ON A 30 MILLION DOLLAR PROJECT. HE SAYS HE LOVE’S ME . HUNTER SENT A PHONY WORK DOCUMENT OF THIS HI-PAID PROJECT AND I WOULD RECEIVE 6% OF THIS, HE WANTS TO MARRY ME. (YEAH AND THE MOON IS ROYAL BLUE TOO), WHO WORKS WITH BERNARD BONSRA AND ERICK NYARKO, MY MONEY, IN CREDIT CARD’S WERE TAMPERED WITH THESE MEN PROFESSIONALLY TOOK $25.000 FROM MY CREDIT CARDS. MONEY WAS SENT TO ACCURA,GHANA AND ALSO TO GHANA MART. $490 IN FOOD, THEY USED MY CREDIT CARDS TO… Read more »
John
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I’m being skyped daily by a sexy white girl claiming to be in Ghana. She keeps asking for foodstuffs through Ghanamart.com , I email with her, skype with her, have seen a woman claiming to be her Mother. Her microphone does not work and her cam freezes often, however when she wants me to see her in her skimpy lingerie I can. HOW CAN I FIND OUT IF SHES A SCAM??? It’s all just to much to believe for me… She also sent me a copy of her expired US Passport claiming she needs to renew it to come back… Read more »
Chris
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Don’t believe any of it. I was scammed out if 2300 dollars recently from Ghana. These bastards need to be stopped!

AMeucci
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Is there anyway to start alerting the people whose photos have been stolen….they are victims, too. In some cases, it seems like the pictures were collected for a period of the persons lifetime…say from teenage years on up to the forties. How horrible!

My first scammer on the dating site Match…sent me pics of two seperate men….claiming to be the same guy. Unbelievable…and got really angry when I wrote—you look so different in these pictures…your eye and hair color and height appearl totally different. They are careless as well…scrutinize all pics even backgrounds.

Dree
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Please join the class action suit against Facebook…Also if you reside in the USA…Report scams to the FTC.

DeAnn
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Is there a class action lawsuit going on Facebook about the Scammers at this moment ?? If so how do I find it to sign my name on it ? I lost my life savings to a Scammer off of Facebook and I have tried to get him throwed off more than once.. He still has 7 are 8 profiles on Facebook under the name he used during our suppose to be relationship.

DENNIS Garrett
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I meet this girl in Facebook where we developed feelings if romance where she lives in Germany where she wanted me to pay for her and her daughter to live with me in them United States so I made reservations through Amircian Airlines but just when we were getting close to have here flight to leave she said she wanted to first get her inherantance from her late father who was murdered in Midrid, Spain last year. So , Melina Axel Adrain goes to Bahrain to claim the her father’s inherantance where now I am into $60,000.00 thousand dollars into… Read more »
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