RSN STEPS™ RECOVERY PROGRAM

RSN STEPS™ RECOVERY PROGRAM

Step 4

You are entirely ready to remove all your defects of character that lead you to this place.

You have to admit that you are ready to take away the moral shortcomings or personality defects that you identified in the previous Step. This simply involves your willingness to change yourself.

Are you fully prepared to rid yourself of your flaws that you listed? If so, this reveals your character and your true willingness to get better and become stronger.

What Do You Need To Do?

You have to be willing to work with your higher power, family, and friends to change and remove your defects. You have to acknowledge that ridding yourself of your needs and fears, and other defects is a lifelong project. Stop pursuing whatever your idea of perfection is, and accept who you are. You will never be happy if you aim for such an ideal.

Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t conquer all your defects immediately or even over a longer period of time. You are a work in progress, this is going to take time. You will stumble and pick yourself back up more than once. Be happy about your success in making it this far and celebrate each little victory in your life. Keep an open mind and a positive emotional attitude throughout your journey to becoming better and stronger.

Learn to practice humility and put character-building ahead of comfort. Make honesty, tolerance, and true love your daily basis of living. You have to accept that humility is necessary to achieve a better and more fulfilled life. You have to change your perspective from a self-centered needy fearful one to a humble content one. You must accept who and what you are, and your new reality also.

What do we mean by Humility? You can’t see your shortcomings without stripping yourself of your ego, fear, and pride. This will be your unfiltered look into yourself that allows you to develop a humble attitude and correct your defects. Humility isn’t really necessary for recovery, but the lack of it may have brought you here, and working on it will bring more joy to your life.

It’s important to let yourself feel the pain that you masked with the romance and the scam. It is a necessary that you will yourself to step toward recovery and spiritual well-being. Be patient, after all you can’t change your life overnight.

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10 Comments

  1. AMeucci February 7, 2017 at 5:21 pm - Reply

    Is there anyway to start alerting the people whose photos have been stolen….they are victims, too. In some cases, it seems like the pictures were collected for a period of the persons lifetime…say from teenage years on up to the forties. How horrible!

    My first scammer on the dating site Match…sent me pics of two seperate men….claiming to be the same guy. Unbelievable…and got really angry when I wrote—you look so different in these pictures…your eye and hair color and height appearl totally different. They are careless as well…scrutinize all pics even backgrounds.

    • Romance Scams Now Editorial Team February 9, 2017 at 5:02 am - Reply

      THE REAL PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO BE CONTACTED BY OTHER VICTIMS. THEY ARE WELL AWARE THEIR PHOTOS WERE USED. WE AND OTHER GROUPS HAVE ALREADY ALERTED THEM.

  2. Dree February 7, 2017 at 7:15 am - Reply

    Please join the class action suit against Facebook…Also if you reside in the USA…Report scams to the FTC.

  3. JAYNE HIGGINS October 20, 2016 at 4:00 pm - Reply

    My experience of online dating scams led to my inspiration to write a book to give me (the victim) a happy ending if only in a fictional context! It is dedicated to women everywhere and the need for us to be there for each other and it is getting very good reviews as detailed below.

    Well I finished Exactly 23 days and I Absofuckinglutelylovedit! Not my usual sort of read but it had me gripped. The ending OMG! Seriously, I read it every spare minute I had. I couldn’t put it down. Bit bloody clever you are! When’s the next one out Jayne because I really loved it. Seriously. Brilliant. It put a smile on my face and a lump in my throat, on several occasions. Well done you. Get back to that desk of yours and pen a new one. NOW. (male 40’s Oct 2016)

    Exactly 23 days is available from https://completelynovel.com/books/exactly-23-days, Amazon, Barnes & Noble and Goggle Books.

  4. Julie Loranger October 10, 2016 at 1:59 am - Reply

    I was wondering if this person is for real details are: Ryan Rangers/ E7 Sergeant First Class at Army
    Has never requested anything but did say that he could not go leave from deployment unless someone
    like a wife, fiancée , signed for him. I then read on a site about some military protocol. Me thinks
    it is just a little lie, what do you think? Why are we so naïve.

    • Julie Loranger October 11, 2016 at 11:33 am - Reply

      Don’t need the comment, I researched myself. Romance scammer. WE need to educate ourselves about who we are friends with on FB, as well as any other dating sites. Above all stay vigilant.
      God Bless Julie. L.

  5. who cares May 15, 2016 at 7:21 pm - Reply

    You have to forgive the scammer?

    Thats exactly what they afterward requested from me too. Yet later on trying to even rip more munah.

    No! I tell you what to do here. You set an example in revenge that beats all the actions what they served to the victims before and share it right to their family clan audience on social media. The more doing it, the faster it will stop.

    • Romance Scams Now Editorial Team May 15, 2016 at 11:38 pm - Reply

      Anger makes you stupid. You were already dumb enough to be scammed in the first place, making one bad decision after another is not a great way to go. And how would you get revenge on someone that lives half a world away? You can deal with your situation or not, that is a choice.

      It takes no courage to rant, hiding behind Google is easy. It takes courage to face yourself and move on!

      • Elina Juusola-Halonen May 24, 2016 at 4:27 am - Reply

        I agree with this. How can you even try to have revenge on someone that is not there. It is a fake profile you would be taking revenge on. A better way would be to set the scammer aside, and deal with your own problem, whatever it is that has made you vulnerable in the first place? This does not have to be something where you bash yourself. It can be something that starts the healing process for you. Maybe start a daily journal and record your feelings and your dreams. You will be surprised to find that you might have the answer there already..

  6. Elina Juusola May 8, 2016 at 6:49 pm - Reply

    HI Tim, and the team. This is certainly a really STRONG program. Quite scary, at times, but I am sure that it will help to start a recovery for a person who is lost in the thrones of understanding the scam he/she is involved in. I have written a book called ‘Love on the Line’ and through that experience of writing out my story, learning to understand the relationships between the world we live in and the scamming phenomena and believing in that we now can re-create our own ‘happy ending’ with no blame or self-beating involved, we can start the long recovery process. I think that it is a lot about forgiving yourself also. Thank you for the program. I will share it around, Warmly Elina Juusola

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